Not sure I'd drink of you put one in front of me
Not sure I'd drink of you put one in front of me
Honestly things have become interesting.
Now my physical addiction seems to have fallen away, it's now just down to willpower about not drinking.
But I don't feel like a drink, I don't want a drink.
I really do think that being on HRT has made me happier so I don't have that desire.
I've put on some weight since I've quit and I've drank a LOT more high sugar drinks but alcohol...just not interested.
I hope this keeps up and isn't a temporary thing because I now have free time to do things.
All I have done is replaced drinking with sleeping but that won't happen forever and it'll be nice to have an additional two hours a day to do stuff.
That's my latest update
Now my physical addiction seems to have fallen away, it's now just down to willpower about not drinking.
But I don't feel like a drink, I don't want a drink.
I really do think that being on HRT has made me happier so I don't have that desire.
I've put on some weight since I've quit and I've drank a LOT more high sugar drinks but alcohol...just not interested.
I hope this keeps up and isn't a temporary thing because I now have free time to do things.
All I have done is replaced drinking with sleeping but that won't happen forever and it'll be nice to have an additional two hours a day to do stuff.
That's my latest update
I remember having a 'light bulb' moment one day when I realized I wasn't thinking about drinking/not drinking anymore. And I realized I had no desire to drink. It felt good to be free.
Katie,
it’s easy to have “willpower” when you don’t want to drink. then none is needed, really, no?
what will you do if or when the moments come where you do want to drink?
you might want to give this some thought if you haven’t already.
relying on willpower can work for a bit, but not usually for very long, and is certainly a wearing-down way to live for any length of time.
it’s easy to have “willpower” when you don’t want to drink. then none is needed, really, no?
what will you do if or when the moments come where you do want to drink?
you might want to give this some thought if you haven’t already.
relying on willpower can work for a bit, but not usually for very long, and is certainly a wearing-down way to live for any length of time.
Someone could pour a shot or a glass of good wine or a beer and put it in front of me and I'd have no desire to drink it. It's not even about the "I shouldn't" or the "I can't" but more the "I don't want."
Honestly things have become interesting.
Now my physical addiction seems to have fallen away, it's now just down to willpower about not drinking.
But I don't feel like a drink, I don't want a drink.
I hope this keeps up and isn't a temporary thing because I now have free time to do things.
Now my physical addiction seems to have fallen away, it's now just down to willpower about not drinking.
But I don't feel like a drink, I don't want a drink.
I hope this keeps up and isn't a temporary thing because I now have free time to do things.
Honestly things have become interesting.
Now my physical addiction seems to have fallen away, it's now just down to willpower about not drinking.
But I don't feel like a drink, I don't want a drink.
I hope this keeps up and isn't a temporary thing because I now have free time to do things.
Now my physical addiction seems to have fallen away, it's now just down to willpower about not drinking.
But I don't feel like a drink, I don't want a drink.
I hope this keeps up and isn't a temporary thing because I now have free time to do things.
However, I almost included in that first post the caveat that it may not be the same for everyone. I didn't include it because I assume that's understood. Dealing with our alcoholism is different for everyone in methodology, philosophy, and experience.
The problem might be that cravings is not an exact term.
For some it means physical cravings, and for some mental thoughts.
For others it means 'wouldn't it be nice' daydreams, and for other still a mix of some or all of those....
which is why I tell people it's not whether or not we crave that's the measure of our recovery, but what we do in response to those cravings.
I haven't a struggle in a while - a few years back I was in dreadful ongoing pain and I had a few 3am declarations of 'I'm buying booze tomorrow'...but the dawn always gave me back my sanity
vive la différence
D
For some it means physical cravings, and for some mental thoughts.
For others it means 'wouldn't it be nice' daydreams, and for other still a mix of some or all of those....
which is why I tell people it's not whether or not we crave that's the measure of our recovery, but what we do in response to those cravings.
I haven't a struggle in a while - a few years back I was in dreadful ongoing pain and I had a few 3am declarations of 'I'm buying booze tomorrow'...but the dawn always gave me back my sanity
vive la différence
D
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Willpower and waiting on things to get better definitely weren't enough for me.
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As you can see, you will get lots of different techniques and options on how to quit. Alot of the time we are all talking about the same thing just explaining it differently using different words. Pick and choose between what works for you and keep the rest in your toolbox for when you need it. Theres more than one way to quell and addict. Best of luck to you with that.
I know I would not drink if you put one in front of me.
"Dealing with our alcoholism is different for everyone in methodology, philosophy, and experience." Driguy
The problem might be that cravings is not an exact term. For some it means physical cravings, and for some mental thoughts. For others it means 'wouldn't it be nice' daydreams, and for other still a mix of some or all of those....
which is why I tell people it's not whether or not we crave that's the measure of our recovery, but what we do in response to those cravings.
D
which is why I tell people it's not whether or not we crave that's the measure of our recovery, but what we do in response to those cravings.
D
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It does have an exact definition though. This definition is always what I think of when I hear the word craving. I'm not sure what I have are cravings because I would not consider them powerful. I occasionally have a desire for some alcohol but usually not a powerful desire.
crav·ing
/ˈkrāviNG/
noun
a powerful desire for something.
synonyms: longing, yearning, hankering, hunger, hungering, thirst, pining, desire, want, wish, fancy, urge, need, appetite, greed, lust, ache, burning, addiction, aspiration, aim, goal;
crav·ing
/ˈkrāviNG/
noun
a powerful desire for something.
synonyms: longing, yearning, hankering, hunger, hungering, thirst, pining, desire, want, wish, fancy, urge, need, appetite, greed, lust, ache, burning, addiction, aspiration, aim, goal;
It does have an exact definition though. This definition is always what I think of when I hear the word craving. I'm not sure what I have are cravings because I would not consider them powerful. I occasionally have a desire for some alcohol but usually not a powerful desire.
crav·ing
/ˈkrāviNG/
noun
a powerful desire for something.
synonyms: longing, yearning, hankering, hunger, hungering, thirst, pining, desire, want, wish, fancy, urge, need, appetite, greed, lust, ache, burning, addiction, aspiration, aim, goal;
crav·ing
/ˈkrāviNG/
noun
a powerful desire for something.
synonyms: longing, yearning, hankering, hunger, hungering, thirst, pining, desire, want, wish, fancy, urge, need, appetite, greed, lust, ache, burning, addiction, aspiration, aim, goal;
My cravings, other than mild shakes, were psychological obsessions. All my cravings for alcohol are gone. I believe they could be reawakened if I started drinking again, but I don't know that from personal experience. I have no desire to test those waters because I have no reason to do it.
After my cravings left, I did experience something people may consider cravings, although I didn't see them as such. Occasionally, I would have a thought that I could have a drink, but that's NOT what I call craving, it's just nonsense bubbling up from my subconscious. This is not to say I didn't sense that thought as dangerous. One of those actually scared me one time. They may be more dangerous than an actual craving, depending on a person's psychological state.
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Good for you! I'm the same way. I no longer want to drink.
Could I drink? Yes.
Do I have money to drink? Yes.
Do I have time to drink? Yes.
Could I drink with no one knowing? Yes, I live alone.
All that said, I have no interest in drinking.
Could I drink? Yes.
Do I have money to drink? Yes.
Do I have time to drink? Yes.
Could I drink with no one knowing? Yes, I live alone.
All that said, I have no interest in drinking.
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As I have said before for the first 4 months I wanted to drink everyday , sometimes the thought was in my head all day. Was it physical, mental , social craving probably all of them . I did not know how to function without alcohol in my life. I just kept myself very busy . AA meetings everyday. Exercise etc. then one day I woke up and didn’t want to drink. This is my lot in life and it couldn’t be better. God , AA , willpower who knows. I just haven’t felt at ease in a long time maybe this is the first time. I’m riding it
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