Todays the day!
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Todays the day!
I just wanted to say hello and stop lurking
I just need to find the strength to quit. my issue just like many others is I cannot have 1. My mental thinking is - is there enough or should I go buy more. Anyways enough of that.
Thank you to everyone for sharing what you are going through and allow me to read the posts. I can see that yes I am not the only one, it will be a battle and it can be conquered
Day 1
Thanks
I just need to find the strength to quit. my issue just like many others is I cannot have 1. My mental thinking is - is there enough or should I go buy more. Anyways enough of that.
Thank you to everyone for sharing what you are going through and allow me to read the posts. I can see that yes I am not the only one, it will be a battle and it can be conquered
Day 1
Thanks
Welcome to SR fineartshooter! Posting more was the best thing I ever did, getting involved with this community really helped keep me on the right track. It can be done and we've all been where you are right now. Why don't you join the monthly class which is full of folks starting on their sober journey this month. It's where I started and chatting with peeps that were going through the exact same challenges and at the same stage as me was worth it's weight in gold! You can do this! xx
Hello and welcome, you've found a great place for support.
No, you're not the only one. There are many of us here seeking the same or different ways to stop drinking.
It is a battle that can be won, but it may take work on your part.
I could never have one drink, either. It was all or nothing for me.
I found support here and in AA. They're both lifesavers. Have you thought of a recovery program?
Many of us use them. It's tough to do it, quit I mean, without support. But I can only speak for myself.
Again, welcome and post away.
Best to you.
No, you're not the only one. There are many of us here seeking the same or different ways to stop drinking.
It is a battle that can be won, but it may take work on your part.
I could never have one drink, either. It was all or nothing for me.
I found support here and in AA. They're both lifesavers. Have you thought of a recovery program?
Many of us use them. It's tough to do it, quit I mean, without support. But I can only speak for myself.
Again, welcome and post away.
Best to you.
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Join Date: Jan 2019
Location: Charlotte, NC
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Ahhhh....I remember the "do I have enough or do I need to buy more?" feeling.
For me...enough was never enough until I was passed out. Then when I woke up from a state of unconsciousness, did I have a little left over to chase that hangover... sad times.
Welcome, and congrats on starting your sober journey.
For me...enough was never enough until I was passed out. Then when I woke up from a state of unconsciousness, did I have a little left over to chase that hangover... sad times.
Welcome, and congrats on starting your sober journey.
Stay strong! I'm at 21 days. I've been there as well. I did the same thing. Had to make sure there was enough so of course I drank it all. It wasn't that long ago. Not having a hangover, extra money, being able to remember the night before and not have to ask my husband if I did anything stupid are all good things to not have. Come up with a mantra. It helps. And be pissed at whatever drink you drank. Welp...that's my advice at 21 days. Keep walking.
Welcome, Fineartshooter - we're so glad to have you join us.
I felt all alone until I came to SR. No one understood what I was going through except my friends here. Not having to face getting sober by myself meant everything. I found the strength to quit, & it changed my life for good. You can do it, too.
I felt all alone until I came to SR. No one understood what I was going through except my friends here. Not having to face getting sober by myself meant everything. I found the strength to quit, & it changed my life for good. You can do it, too.
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Join Date: Mar 2019
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Ya know carl brought up a really good point
Plan
I’m going to think about it
Maybe since my wife isn’t a drinker get her a stick to smack me with
Well maybe that’s not the best plan but I will let you all know what I come up with
Plan
I’m going to think about it
Maybe since my wife isn’t a drinker get her a stick to smack me with
Well maybe that’s not the best plan but I will let you all know what I come up with
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Join Date: Feb 2019
Location: Scotland UK
Posts: 56
Looks like you've brought memories back that hang about in all of us, fineartshooter.
That is no bad thing, for we all must remember, in order to grow from strength to strength throughout this journey we must travel, there is one other thing we also must remember, and it is vitally important
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Pleasant thoughts are sure to come to your way from all the members who have the honour of reading your post, for I am a new member and found that to be true.
Fight the good fight.
Warm regards.
weewillie.
That is no bad thing, for we all must remember, in order to grow from strength to strength throughout this journey we must travel, there is one other thing we also must remember, and it is vitally important
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Pleasant thoughts are sure to come to your way from all the members who have the honour of reading your post, for I am a new member and found that to be true.
Fight the good fight.
Warm regards.
weewillie.
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Join Date: Mar 2019
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Day 3 is going great. Forgot what are good nights sleep felt like. We walked the dogs early this morning. And then my wife and I went to a couple local parks to just walk together.
We are going on a vacation in a couple of weeks without any kids or extra family it would be really nice to go on vacation that didn’t revolve around drinking. It’s actually a cruise we are going on a few weeks ago I ordered the beverage package. Ironically I opted at that time for the non alcoholic package and this morning I talked with the cruise line. I asked them to please make sure that the in suite mini bar was cleared of all alcohol. They questioned me with that until I told them look I am a alcoholic and I don’t need the temptations. They were very accommodating and assured me it would have bottled water only.
That was the first time I admitted that or professed the to anyone. It felt good
Have a great Sunday
We are going on a vacation in a couple of weeks without any kids or extra family it would be really nice to go on vacation that didn’t revolve around drinking. It’s actually a cruise we are going on a few weeks ago I ordered the beverage package. Ironically I opted at that time for the non alcoholic package and this morning I talked with the cruise line. I asked them to please make sure that the in suite mini bar was cleared of all alcohol. They questioned me with that until I told them look I am a alcoholic and I don’t need the temptations. They were very accommodating and assured me it would have bottled water only.
That was the first time I admitted that or professed the to anyone. It felt good
Have a great Sunday
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I guess what I forgot to add was - Thank you once again for everyone else posts / personal hurdles. I honestly never opened my eyes to see that this problem is huge. And my personal life and personal drinking problems shadows so many others. Its a little more clarifying for me when I read it and realize that's exactly me.
Congratulations on day three! I went on a cruise years ago and ran up a $1000 tab for drinks. I regret missing what could have been. The food is usually a big deal and I skipped a lot of meals to hang out in a smoke filled casino drinking. Recently there was a story where a drunken man jumped of one of the top decks cause it sounded fun, he was lucky to live. They banned him and his buddies for life. I don’t understand why we work so hard to get away and then when we get there we go back to our drinking routine.. I only usually remember half of my vacation. So sad, but I am using that is strength.
Hope your Sunday is great and stay strong!
Hope your Sunday is great and stay strong!
Hey there! Today is my day one again as well. I spent many months reading this forum before I actually joined and I love the wisdom and encouragement. Alcohol is taking over my life, I would be healthy, fit, and so full of energy without it, but instead I spend my evenings sipping away and then usually blacks out towards the end, waking up around 3 with anxiety. I'm home with my 2 kids so I drink alone most times. How sad and pathetic. I will embrace spring as a new beginning. I'm looking forward to lots of energy, feeling beautiful, a cleaner more organized home, better quality time with my kids, so many benefits. I look forward to a drink when I get home from my daily work and errands, but I'm instead going to look forward to a better way of living. We got this!!!
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Hey fineart. LOL to the stick idea. I’ve said it before & I’ll say it again, for me a daily exercise routine was critical. It’s a way to see mental & physical improvement on an almost daily basis & it is so incompatible with drinking. It’s something to look forward to each day & your body will be more than willing. Stay strong buddy. I’m rooting for you!
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