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Old 12-30-2018, 11:46 AM
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Already feeling the urge to drink tomorrow

I binge drink. I haven't touched alcohol in a week, but now, on the eve of New Years Eve, my brain is trying to convince me that I will have a couple tomorrow night and I'll be fine ... except, I won't really. I'll end up having umpteen drinks and feeling like hell on the first day of 2019 ... and I really don't want that. Hoping I'll pull through for tomorrow night!
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Old 12-30-2018, 11:54 AM
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Old 12-30-2018, 12:00 PM
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Old 12-30-2018, 12:16 PM
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Start the year out right and exercise some discipline. We don't NEED to drink. I'll be sober, you can be sober too.
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Old 12-30-2018, 12:19 PM
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Old 12-30-2018, 12:22 PM
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It might help to make a plan for where you will go on New Year's Eve and how you will handle it when you want to drink. You can get through this and stay sober!
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Old 12-30-2018, 01:18 PM
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You deserve the best life available. That is a sober life without alcohol. Alcohol is a dead end. It is not a reward or a privelage or fun. Be the best you ever for 2019 and drop that habit for good. You will save a ton of money, probably lose weight, lose the guilt, shame and hangovers. good luck.
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Old 12-30-2018, 01:41 PM
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Hi GrayJ,

I'm in my 21st month of sobriety, 2018 will be my first full calendar year in recovery. At the beginning of the year I had written a list of my physical, mental, financial, and spiritual goals and I'm proud to say that I've accomplished all of them. This isn't meant to be braggadocious or arrogant, I consider 2018 as the year I built a solid and stable foundation of recovery. Now I'm in the process of identifying the goals I wish to accomplish in 2019.

Perhaps it would help to do the same. Maybe write down what you would like to achieve in 2019 and then ask yourself if drinking will get you closer to those goals.
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Old 12-30-2018, 01:59 PM
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There'll be a lot of people around on SR Gray - maybe it would be good for you to join them?

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Old 12-30-2018, 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted by HTown View Post
You deserve the best life available. That is a sober life without alcohol. Alcohol is a dead end. It is not a reward or a privelage or fun. Be the best you ever for 2019 and drop that habit for good. You will save a ton of money, probably lose weight, lose the guilt, shame and hangovers. good luck.
This really rings true for me. Thanks guys! I know where I'm going tomorrow. To my best friends house with his sister and her husband. I know I'm going to be offered a glass of champagne at 23.59pm, but I'm going to say a firm NO.
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Old 04-26-2019, 10:10 AM
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Its not worth it GrayJ!
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Old 04-26-2019, 04:59 PM
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Hi and welcome anabolicsteroid

if you want to bump threads thats fine but its usually best to bump threads from the first few pages of the forum - older threads like these may not reflect the current situation of the member

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