Notices

Hey everyone!

Thread Tools
 
Old 12-24-2018, 07:47 PM
  # 1 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 1
Hey everyone!

Hey everyone hope your having a good holiday, just wanted to introduce myself. I recently came to a realization that I can’t keep living my life in the grips of substance abuse. I’m 32 years old struggling with alcohol and drug addiction, a few days ago I hit rock bottom. It was a major turning point where I took a look at myself and felt like such a loser. Thats when I knew I wanted to start this new chapter in my life. I’m looking forward to sharing my success and hopefully few struggles with this community.
onethingoneday is offline  
Old 12-24-2018, 07:51 PM
  # 2 (permalink)  
bona fido dog-lover
 
least's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: SF Bay area, CA
Posts: 99,760
Welcome to the family. You'll find lots of support and good ideas here.
least is offline  
Old 12-24-2018, 08:12 PM
  # 3 (permalink)  
Member
 
Ghostlight1's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2013
Location: Atlanta
Posts: 2,872
Hello and welcome.
I understand your struggle.
To read about it look for the thread 'If you don't think you can quit'.
It tells the story, in a condensed way, of my struggles and, finally, success at quitting.

You realize you have a problem and you're ready to take action to stop. That's the first step.
You can do it. Many of us here are.

Welcome again and best to you.
Ghostlight1 is offline  
Old 12-24-2018, 08:32 PM
  # 4 (permalink)  
aw166
 
Join Date: Dec 2018
Location: London, UK
Posts: 5
I've heard it called "the gift of desperation" before. I think a lot of addiction/recovery is about honesty as well. Keep being honest with yourself and others. Sometimes it's easy to kid yourself things weren't that bad. Or kid yourself a drink or two will be ok. For me, I kept lying to myself I'd just have a couple, lie to myself I could learn to moderate. Every single time I had a couple/whatever limit I set. Then carried on to oblivion. Even after admitting my problems it took me 6/7 months before I could really be honest.

All the best.
aw166 is offline  
Old 12-24-2018, 09:16 PM
  # 5 (permalink)  
Member
 
dafunbra's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2018
Posts: 252
Welcome! It was definitely desperation that brought me here and to the path I'm on. I've tried just about everything I could find to fix my life except quitting drinking. I quite honestly felt it was my only option left.
dafunbra is offline  
Old 12-25-2018, 12:22 AM
  # 6 (permalink)  
Administrator
 
Dee74's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Australia
Posts: 211,385
Welcome onethingoneday

D
Dee74 is offline  
Old 12-25-2018, 02:20 PM
  # 7 (permalink)  
Member
 
PurpleKnight's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Ireland
Posts: 25,826
Welcome to the Forum!!
PurpleKnight is offline  
Old 12-25-2018, 05:58 PM
  # 8 (permalink)  
Member
 
PhoenixJ's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2016
Location: Adelaide, Australia
Posts: 28,647
After being in hospital for 3 months (very deep burns- booze) and being thrown out of same hospital for drinking hand sanitizer- I spent Xmas 2015 drinking 5L of very horrible rotgut wine. That was my rockbottom. My family had abandoned me and was living in the only place I could find- a boarding house run by drug dealers/users. I nearly died of self neglect.

So now the horror r/b shared-

WELCOME OTOD!!!

SR is a safe, supportive and welcoming community. The first thing I did (on being suggested) was join the Newcomer's thread begun when I first got sober (C/ March '16). Why not try the Dec thread?

https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...-part-1-a.html


The more you put into this place (SR), the more you will get out of it. So much to learn- get and give support from and to.

Keep posting.

My prayers and support to you.
PhoenixJ is offline  
Old 12-25-2018, 05:59 PM
  # 9 (permalink)  
Member
 
PhoenixJ's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2016
Location: Adelaide, Australia
Posts: 28,647
Oops wrong thread
PhoenixJ is offline  
Old 12-25-2018, 05:59 PM
  # 10 (permalink)  
Member
 
PhoenixJ's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2016
Location: Adelaide, Australia
Posts: 28,647
OOPS- saying wrong thread wrong
PhoenixJ is offline  
Old 12-25-2018, 06:07 PM
  # 11 (permalink)  
Member
 
Free2bme888's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2018
Location: Where I’ve longed to be all my life…..here, now.
Posts: 7,335
Welcome !!!! Congratulations on choosing the right path


@PJ——😂😂😂
Free2bme888 is offline  
Old 12-25-2018, 06:19 PM
  # 12 (permalink)  
Community Greeter
 
Hevyn's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Upstate New York
Posts: 51,537
Welcome to you, onething! We're so glad to have you with us.
Hevyn is offline  
Old 12-25-2018, 06:29 PM
  # 13 (permalink)  
Member
 
gettingsmarter's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2014
Posts: 2,978
Welcome. Glad you found us.
gettingsmarter is offline  
Old 12-25-2018, 07:29 PM
  # 14 (permalink)  
Member
 
nigey1's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Australia
Posts: 340
Welcome
nigey1 is offline  
Old 12-25-2018, 09:58 PM
  # 15 (permalink)  
Member
 
Ayers's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2018
Posts: 1,278
Welcome Onething. You have youth on your side. So happy for you for making this decision early in your life.

You will not regret joining.
Ayers is offline  

Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off





All times are GMT -7. The time now is 08:05 PM.