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Old 12-04-2018, 01:44 AM
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All I want for Christmas is to be sober x

hey all
This will be my first Christmas sober in I don't know how many years....
I'm coming up to one year no booze on the 27th of December
AND it's honestly been the best year of my life
Anyone else joining me on there first sober Christmas???
If so I wish you the happiest Christmas ever !!!!

Its been a long journey for me ...
But the best decision I've ever made in my life ..
merry Christmas all
cara x
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Old 12-04-2018, 03:49 AM
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Hooray! I’ll. Be joining for my first in a long long tine. It willl be one year for me 1/2. Bring on the next year!!
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Old 12-04-2018, 03:57 AM
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That's great Caralara! So happy for you.
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Old 12-04-2018, 04:11 AM
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Merry Christmas Cara

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Old 12-04-2018, 04:18 AM
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Nice one! After a while sober Xmas’s become the norm as does a sober life! It keeps getting better if you work your recovery each day.
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Old 12-04-2018, 04:21 AM
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Love this!, Enjoy your sobriety this holiday season and all to come, Cara.
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Old 12-06-2018, 08:50 PM
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Merry Christmas, Cara!

Congratulations on your recovery.
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Old 12-06-2018, 09:31 PM
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Hi caralara

Congratulations on your nearly year! I'll join you, it's my first sober Christmas too! I'm at 218 days and counting so here's to a happy and healthy festive season
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The first of many sober years! Congrats!
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Old 12-06-2018, 09:45 PM
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This will be my first in many many years. I've been sober just shy of 3 months and am finding new ways to enjoy life every day. Have a great holiday!
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Old 12-06-2018, 10:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Helianthus View Post
Hi caralara

Congratulations on your nearly year! I'll join you, it's my first sober Christmas too! I'm at 218 days and counting so here's to a happy and healthy festive season
Me too Caralara, this will be my first sober Christmas in more than 30 years!
And I’m just behind you Helianthus, on 208 days sober. I stopped drinking on May 14 and joined the class of May ‘18
SR has been my lifeline. You are all amazing

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Old 12-06-2018, 10:58 PM
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There is something magical about reaching that one year mark, especially around the holidays. Take some time to reflect and enjoy the day.

Congratulations!!!
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Old 12-06-2018, 11:10 PM
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Me too Caralara, this will be my first sober Christmas in more than 30 years!
And I’m just behind you Helianthus, on 208 days sober. I stopped drinking on May 14 and joined the class of May ‘18
SR has been my lifeline. You are all amazing

Nice to meet you Willow and congratulations on 208 days sober, fantastic job

How are you finding things?
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Old 12-06-2018, 11:19 PM
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Merry Xmas to you also.this will be my first sober in about 24 years, but not my last!!
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Old 12-07-2018, 12:41 AM
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Nice to meet you too Helianthus and everyone else here

I’m finding it great to be sober (no hangovers is awesome) but it’s a bit of a roller coaster ride. I feel much healthier that’s for sure, which is great but I do have mood swings. Thankfully the cravings for alcohol are not as persistent as they were in the early weeks. They definitely still come, but they don’t last as long. The first few weeks were really tough but it’s getting easier
I think Christmas is going to be a challenge, with lots of people drinking around me, so my plan is to stay close to SR and have plenty of nonalcoholic drinks available
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Hi cara!

Congrats !!!

I’m in Willow’s class for May 2018. Begin my journey and Mae but slipped up so I’m a little bit behind at 193😍

Thanks to everyone here at SR, this will be my first sober Christmas in about 40 years .

Thanks for the OP
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Old 12-07-2018, 01:52 AM
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Nice to meet you too Helianthus and everyone else here

I’m finding it great to be sober (no hangovers is awesome) but it’s a bit of a roller coaster ride. I feel much healthier that’s for sure, which is great but I do have mood swings. Thankfully the cravings for alcohol are not as persistent as they were in the early weeks. They definitely still come, but they don’t last as long. The first few weeks were really tough but it’s getting easier
I think Christmas is going to be a challenge, with lots of people drinking around me, so my plan is to stay close to SR and have plenty of nonalcoholic drinks available
Sounds very similar to me, I only get cravings these days if I let myself get too hungry then out they pop. You gotta love the mood swings NOT! I take St John's Wort everyday to help with anxiety and even me out a bit, it works so well for me but I still get tearful a lot more easily than I ever did when I was drinking.

I'm fortunate that I live in a practically sober household apart from my husbands sister who is of great concern, 2nd DUI, drinking whisky with her cranberry juice at breakfast because she has a "cold", will only admit she has a problem when she's drunk etc. She's just about to start a 12 week course to get her licence back during which she will be tested for alcohol each time she attends so that will be interesting. But anyway I'm getting off topic not much alcohol will be around so hopefully Christmas won't put too much temptation in my way.

Definitely stay close to SR and maybe get an non-alcoholic drink you wouldn't normally have so it's a bit of a treat? This will sound weird but I really like the Gingerade Kombucha once in a while or Canada Dry are making a Cranberry & Ginger Ale drink here at the moment which is really nice.

Best of luck to us!
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Old 12-07-2018, 03:38 AM
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Thanks for this positive thread. It is heartwarming to see how many people are so grateful to be sober and looking forward to a sober Christmas.

It will be my first sober Christmas in .... geez... forever? And I am so, so looking forward to it. I will be sober 4 months come Christmas .(106 days now) This will be my gift to myself and my family - a sober Mom and wife and a sober me. Jaaaay !!!!
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Old 12-07-2018, 11:14 AM
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I too will be sober for Christmas for the first time in MANY years. I'm currently on day 131, have just finished illustrating this year's Christmas card and have emailed it off for print. I'm definitely looking forward to a sober Christmas!

Great thread!
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