Back again, trying to back on track
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Back again, trying to back on track
Well here I am, back again. I stopped drinking for 3 months from mid January to mid April. The last 2 months I've gone on a couple weekend benders. No serious jackpots occured during those 2 months, but I certainly lost control more than once.
I generally just feel like crap mentally. It's amazing how good I felt during those 3 months booze free. My confidence was sky high, no anxiety, and I felt good about life. I was a better father, husband, employee, and friend. I need ti get back on track. It is so easy to slip back into old ways.
I went on a weekend trip with my wife over the weekend. Of course I drank the whole time... nothing awful happened, but she was certainly annoyed with me. Haven't had a drink since Sunday night. I am just starting to feel normal again, as my hangovers after a bender are unbearable. Extreme anxiety, guilt, self hatred. The night sweats are awful.
I need to make some changes. I think all roads for me lead to giving AA a try. I've quit many times over the past 8 years. Unusually for 1-6 months, but nothing seems to stick permanent.
I generally just feel like crap mentally. It's amazing how good I felt during those 3 months booze free. My confidence was sky high, no anxiety, and I felt good about life. I was a better father, husband, employee, and friend. I need ti get back on track. It is so easy to slip back into old ways.
I went on a weekend trip with my wife over the weekend. Of course I drank the whole time... nothing awful happened, but she was certainly annoyed with me. Haven't had a drink since Sunday night. I am just starting to feel normal again, as my hangovers after a bender are unbearable. Extreme anxiety, guilt, self hatred. The night sweats are awful.
I need to make some changes. I think all roads for me lead to giving AA a try. I've quit many times over the past 8 years. Unusually for 1-6 months, but nothing seems to stick permanent.
Same exact pattern here. I was sober from January to April. Had a couple binges over the last month. Felt horrible, ashamed, guilty, angry, and generally like crap. Today is day 8 and I am finally starting to perk up. This pattern had repeated too many times over the past 15 years. I am done. I am spending lots of time fine tuning my recovery plan.
You will find incredible support in AA. Get to a meeting and find a sponsor. You can do this.
You will find incredible support in AA. Get to a meeting and find a sponsor. You can do this.
When you quit are you keeping in the back of your mind that you will be able to drink again in the future? If so, leaving the door open will eventually lead back to that first drink that ultimately leads right back to the same old miserable place.
I had to take the option off the table.
I had to take the option off the table.
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When you quit are you keeping in the back of your mind that you will be able to drink again in the future? If so, leaving the door open will eventually lead back to that first drink that ultimately leads right back to the same old miserable place.
I had to take the option off the table.
I had to take the option off the table.
Welcome back, GoodLife.
You got a great taste of the good life. AA sounds like a great way to get it back and keep it.
The combination of AA and SR sound like solid parts of a very good pla.
You may want to take a look at the thread linked below.p to see if there are any other things you may want to add:
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...highlight=Psst (Psst...wanna know why I'm always recommending recovery plans?)
You got a great taste of the good life. AA sounds like a great way to get it back and keep it.
The combination of AA and SR sound like solid parts of a very good pla.
You may want to take a look at the thread linked below.p to see if there are any other things you may want to add:
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...highlight=Psst (Psst...wanna know why I'm always recommending recovery plans?)
Goodlife, maybe you can come up with some ideas to help support your recovery so that after two or three months, you are no longer thinking you could give drinking a go. I'm glad you are back and that you want to make this work.
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