Helpmewithbf

Hi, my best friend is the addict and alcoholic in my life. She lost her apartments and car. And then she found an addict. She moved in with him. Then he got arrested with her car. She now lives in his house. And will cancel
Plans with me. And will go out with an alcoholic. My question is, when she cancels on me, which she knows hurts me. Do I let her know? When she is sober? Or let it go??

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Welcome to the family. I'd let her know you are worried about her lifestyle. Other than that, there's not much you can do for her.

We have two friends and family forums that you might find helpful.

https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...ly-alcoholics/

https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...tance-abusers/

Dee74

Hi and welcome helpwithbf
I'm a little unclear about your question.

If your only concern is her cancelling on you then sure raise it.

If you're worried about her lifestyle and her playmate I think you can raise that with her too, if you want - but I wouldn't expect any change - you may even get a hostile reaction.

I didn't quit until I wanted to - sad but true.

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