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my husband got a phone call last night that my mother has taken a stroke ...my 15 year old niece called us last night she never told us details but i phoned my pastor as i wanted someone who could advise me my husband then phoned my niece back and she said she just in over night so she will be fine as far as i know she refusing to eat but apart from that she ok its just brings me up so much anger about my mother and what she has done i cant see her at all she is the one who has been in my flashbacks she is the one who hurt me there is no way i can see her and her side of the family will be pissed at me and call me all the names under the sun i cant go there and i cant face her calling me by the name that triggers me

Rar

Oh no, GMS! I'm glad you called your pastor to help you deal with this. I am sorry that it resurrects all those bad memories. Keep moving forward with your own health. ((HUGS)) .

Ladysadie

Prayers sent to you GMS. Our hearts go out to you and your family.

Verdantia

Praying for you, dear GMS. I am glad you called your pastor. You must do what is best for you and your sobriety.