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Attending meetings for the past 2 years and have had multiple slips during this time..I don't share any of this at meetings as too ashamed and bothered about what people will think of me. Any advice please
Just replied to your other post - looks like you've double-posted, but that's ok, this is a HUGE website and takes some getting used to. Done it myself loads of times Member
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Welcome to SR, LindaMary.
So very glad that you found us.
You will find much opportunity to share here anonymously.
Maybe consider joining an SR Class.
I will post a link to the most current one in a minute.
So very glad that you found us.
You will find much opportunity to share here anonymously.
Maybe consider joining an SR Class.
I will post a link to the most current one in a minute.
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More importantly than what other people might think about your slips...what do you think about your slips.
I was the poster child for "don't let this happen to you" for 3 years when I first started going to AA meetings. So I can relate, as can plenty of other people in the rooms. I kept coming back because I didn't want my tombstone to read "Died of Embarrassment".
I began to make progress and started my true recovery when I stripped my false pride and denial; and got honest about my past and present actions, feelings, and thoughts.
It was difficult, but so worth it! My life today is so much better and I am finally comfortable in my own skin. What a blessing!
I was the poster child for "don't let this happen to you" for 3 years when I first started going to AA meetings. So I can relate, as can plenty of other people in the rooms. I kept coming back because I didn't want my tombstone to read "Died of Embarrassment".
I began to make progress and started my true recovery when I stripped my false pride and denial; and got honest about my past and present actions, feelings, and thoughts.
It was difficult, but so worth it! My life today is so much better and I am finally comfortable in my own skin. What a blessing!
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Originally Posted by LindaMary1 
I don't share any of this at meetings as too ashamed and bothered about what people will think of me.
Because what people think about me is about them, and not about me.
I don't pray because it makes God feel better. I have other reasons.
I don't share because it makes the strangers in the room have a higher opinion of me. I have other reasons.
Best of Luck on Your Journey.
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As you read through the threads Linda Mary, you will find a wealth of information. You'll learn what has helped others and also tips on remaining sober. There is someone here 24/7, so if you feel weak and/or in danger of drinking, POST HERE FIRST! Someone (or lots of someones) will answer and help. Also, please post if you have some input or encouragement for someone else. Stay strong! You can do this. We're rooting for you.
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I was at a meeting this morning and the 3rd tradition was the topic. The only requirement for AA membership is the desire to stop drinking. Several people shared that they went to AA for months and even years before they were able to stop completely but they kept going. You're not alone. I did it too.
They say the more meetings the more chances. And posting here helps me a lot.
Someday you may feel comfortable sharing about continuing to drink at a meeting. But if you aren't now it doesn't mean you're not welcome or shouldn't go to meetings.
Thinking of you.
They say the more meetings the more chances. And posting here helps me a lot.
Someday you may feel comfortable sharing about continuing to drink at a meeting. But if you aren't now it doesn't mean you're not welcome or shouldn't go to meetings.
Thinking of you.
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Just remember it's progress not perfection. It took me close to four years to finally get sober. Luckily I didn't end up in jail, in an institution or in the ground. My last relapse was planned and very risky. Do you have a sponsor? Have you worked the steps? How often do you go to meetings? Everyone has their own program that works for them. I think the key is to remember to put recovery above everything else. Good luck and God bless.
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