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Old 02-24-2018, 02:52 PM
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Lonely and struggling

Today has been really hard! It is a miracle that I have not slipped. But I am overcome with feelings of loneliness and anxiety. I know that you are here, send me good vibes, thoughts and prayers. I feel like I don't have a life anymore.
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Old 02-24-2018, 02:53 PM
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Hi Icewater!

You've got friends here who understand your situation. Keep reading and posting!
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Old 02-24-2018, 02:54 PM
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Sending you good vibes and positive thoughts icewater...well done you 💜
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Old 02-24-2018, 03:05 PM
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We are here and I'm glad you reached out.

Sending lots of good thoughts your way.
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Old 02-24-2018, 03:16 PM
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Good thoughts coming your way, icewater
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Old 02-24-2018, 03:25 PM
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Icewater1961, rootin for ya.
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Old 02-24-2018, 03:29 PM
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Hi there, icewater. Good job at not slipping--hang on and the cravings will pass. Distract yourself, eat something, have a cup of tea, watch some junk TV.
We're here and rooting for you. Best wishes on your sober journey.
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Old 02-24-2018, 03:45 PM
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The first days are real hard. Real hard, You just need to start to persist at it. Believe it gets easier. Once you get five years, you have a vast toolbox of solution that you talk yourself out of drinking in no matter what situation that you are in.
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Old 02-24-2018, 03:50 PM
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Loneliness is hard to deal with. You can do it though. Just don’t pick up and, start drinking. You’ll thank yourself tomorrow.
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Old 02-24-2018, 04:08 PM
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Thank you

Thank you for all you support and special thanks for the beautiful rose!
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Old 02-24-2018, 04:09 PM
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Hi icewater

those feelings are normal in early recovery - try and think of them as a natural result of mind and body healing.

I hope you feel a little better now and that tomorrow is a good day

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Old 02-24-2018, 04:19 PM
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ice,

SR's team of recovering addicts promised me, it gets better. I trusted them and they did not lie.

I had small slips, which I regret, but I still feel pretty amazing.

I am just now really starting to feel the freedom of being this sober.

My feelings are pure, I am confident, my strength is better, my stamina is up, i am more loving, forgiving, tolerant.

I am free.

When I start to feel good, the crave says...go ahead, have a few. Just like when I was actively drinking.

I am an addict for life.

Thanks.
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Old 02-24-2018, 04:25 PM
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Im struggling too right now. Stay strong, we can do this!
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