Extreme anxiety and fear
Member
Thread Starter
Join Date: Jan 2018
Posts: 148
Extreme anxiety and fear
I have been having a rough time with fear and anxiety since I started this journey. I have been having awful dreams about terrible things happening and I keep waking up in terror. Fear of death, illness, something happening to my daughter (the fear is so strong it is really hard to even write about it). This month marks the 3rd anniversary of my mother's death. I was with her when she died. I struggled through the whole day in a state of fear. I was at an AA meeting this weekend where someone said fear and anxiety are signs you aren't trusting in your higher power and turning over control. I want that to be true but right now I just feel terrified.
Has anyone else gone through this?
Has anyone else gone through this?
Member
Join Date: Dec 2017
Posts: 222
I slept well but other than that, for awhile I had the same- fear. Unfounded fear and it was horrible. I made it through it and now at almost a month and a half I’m much better. The wild fear feeling is gone and replaced with lesser anxiety. I’ve had quick times of panic but they fade. It gets much better. I just rode the waves and it improves every day for me. Everyone is different but I did have this. I can relate. Don’t worry- it will not stay this way for you.
I have been having a rough time with fear and anxiety since I started this journey. I have been having awful dreams about terrible things happening and I keep waking up in terror. Fear of death, illness, something happening to my daughter (the fear is so strong it is really hard to even write about it). This month marks the 3rd anniversary of my mother's death. I was with her when she died. I struggled through the whole day in a state of fear. I was at an AA meeting this weekend where someone said fear and anxiety are signs you aren't trusting in your higher power and turning over control. I want that to be true but right now I just feel terrified.
Has anyone else gone through this?
Has anyone else gone through this?
"Do not distress yourself with dark imaginings, many fears are born out of fatigue and loneliness; Be gentle with yourself "
Hope this helps!
Member
Join Date: Nov 2017
Location: Oregon
Posts: 33
For a solid week I thought I was about to die due to the initial anxiety and I worried about all of my loved ones. It at lasted a few days. Your going through some tough times but it will pass and your mind will clear up
I think most people suffer some kind of heightened anxiety when they quit. It may fixate on other things but I think it is down to withdrawal.
If you've never been anxious before it should get better in a week or two...if you have a history of anxiety obviously thats different, but even I, with a lifelong history of anxiety is doing the best I've ever been my adult life.
D
If you've never been anxious before it should get better in a week or two...if you have a history of anxiety obviously thats different, but even I, with a lifelong history of anxiety is doing the best I've ever been my adult life.
D
I would also knock this down to withdrawal. How long has this been?
Not sure I buy that it's tied to your not giving yourself to your Higher Power. I actually had a lot less anxiety when I stopped trying to work the program, but I believe that had more to do with my physical withdrawal symptoms easing than anything else.
It'll probably get better as time goes on.
Not sure I buy that it's tied to your not giving yourself to your Higher Power. I actually had a lot less anxiety when I stopped trying to work the program, but I believe that had more to do with my physical withdrawal symptoms easing than anything else.
It'll probably get better as time goes on.
Yes! Horrific fear and anxiety for me. To the point where I would have done anything to make it stop. However, it has calmed now. I still struggle at night (not as bad) and during the day it is manageable. It will lessen, I promise... As long as you don't drink. You will be right back there else, and probably even worse.
The best advice I was given was to be kind to myself. And so i say that to you. Go easy on yourself. You have made the very best decision to stop. Take each day as it comes, rest, eat healthily and drink plenty of water. Xx
The best advice I was given was to be kind to myself. And so i say that to you. Go easy on yourself. You have made the very best decision to stop. Take each day as it comes, rest, eat healthily and drink plenty of water. Xx
Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)