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Old 01-05-2018, 08:03 PM
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This will be interesting/challenging!

At a concert - 15,000 or so people, everyone around me seems to be drinking, wish me luck!!
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Old 01-05-2018, 08:14 PM
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Don't rely on luck, have a plan. What will you do if it gets too overwhelming? Or if you are offered a drink? Have an escape plan and concentrate on the music. I can guarantee there will be a lot of prior there who aren't drinking too..,,so just because you are there doesn't mean it's required to drink.
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Old 01-05-2018, 08:26 PM
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I’m the designated sober driver, people I am with including my wife are all drinking, middle of no where so no where really to escape too, will go to the toilet or say I am getting something to eat if I need a break.

Yeah, sure there are others here not drinkIng, somewhere.
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Old 01-05-2018, 09:40 PM
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Aren't concerts SO much more fun when you're sober and present??!?!
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Old 01-05-2018, 09:53 PM
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Think it’s just the crowds I find hard. Realizing my drinking def stems from my introverted nature and not liking being around people much.
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Old 01-05-2018, 09:56 PM
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I'm not a great lover of crowds either but I try and lose myself in the music

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Old 01-05-2018, 11:37 PM
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The key word here is 'seem'. There'll be plenty of sober people in that mix. Plus others who only have one or two.

Drinking at concerts was a nightmare from the one or two times I went to big ones. Getting served was a nightmare, then the drinks costvtwice the prices as normal, and then trying not to get said drink knocked .... nope not a good experience for an alcoholic.

Still not sure I'd cope with static crowds that big for any length of time either. Not unless I went in the autistic friendly zone where there's more space and less expectations. Not that I'm autistic, just as a SEN teacher I go to autistic friendly performances at cinema and theatre and they're far less rigid and easier to get away if you need to without people huffing or puffing about letting you through.

Hope it went well.

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Lady just collapsed about 5 meters from where I was, drunk too much
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Old 01-06-2018, 02:53 AM
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Bit of the concert

https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=10157381199803849&id=7604 18848
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