New Year- New Beginnings

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Old 12-31-2017, 04:45 PM
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New Year- New Beginnings

As the final hours of the toughest year of my life tick away, I am contemplating all the good and bad moments of the past 12 months.

Obviously the worst moment came 8 months ago when my fiancée lost her battle with this disease. I was heartbroken, devastated, and depressed as one would expect.

But many good and even great moments have come since.

I’ve had the opportunity to reconnect with my friends, family, and especially my daughter.
The grief was something I imagined would never subside and yet in time as everyone says - the fog began to lift and I found a new freedom.

One of the best decisions I’ve ever made in my life was to search out this forum and find all of the wonderful people here.

Though you are strangers and we will never meet in real life, I want you all to know that I can never express or repay my gratitude for everything I received here. Without you, I would have been lost.

The work on self discovery and recovery is hard. But if you can put in the effort then you can reap the rewards.

I begin 2018 with a hope that I haven’t known in a very long time.

And my hope for all of you is that you may each find your own peace and happiness.

Life is short. Life is precious. Life is hard. Life is rewarding.

Live your best possible life. It’s the only one you get

HBG
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Old 12-31-2017, 04:54 PM
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May 2018 bring you even more peace and maybe a bit of joy too HBG!
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Thank you! A very timely and important message.
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Old 12-31-2017, 07:55 PM
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Beautifully expressed, thank you for sharing.
Peace and joy to you in the new year.
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Old 12-31-2017, 08:43 PM
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Wishing you joy and fulfillment...and sending you a hug.
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Old 12-31-2017, 08:48 PM
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HBG.....Happy 2018 to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Suck out every bit of Joy that you can......
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Old 01-01-2018, 12:48 AM
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Thank you so much for Your beautiful post and perspective. We truly find the greatest lessons out of the hardest times. Blessings to you and your family. May you embrace the easy days and ride out the difficult ones with patience and gratitude!
Happy new year, new day!
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Old 01-01-2018, 07:10 AM
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Great message! Hope 2018 is a great year for you. I feel hopeful for 2018 also which is a great feeling!
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Good for you! I'm glad you are in a better place.
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Lovely post, thank you and wishing you a peaceful and happy 2018.
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May 2018 bring you even more peace, joy, and understanding.

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