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Old 12-27-2017, 11:57 PM
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Helpful actions , what are yours ?

More focused at those in early recovery including me at 5 months there are things I do during the holidays that keep me sober .

1: Stay away from pubs clubs and parties . I do not care who I offend or what they think ,MY sobriety come before everything .

2 : Avoid the drink isle in the supermarket if possible if not zone out and don't reminisce .

3:Focus on 2018 as being a wonderful sober happy healthy year ,working on a plan for fitness ,working on plans for new garden or home projects .

Be proud of your sobriety whether its a day a month or a year or more .Its yours , own it, hold on to it with dear love ,let no one or no thing take it away . and wishing each and every one of you a happy healthy sober prosperous new year .
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Old 12-28-2017, 12:03 AM
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More focused at those in early recovery including me at 5 months there are things I do during the holidays that keep me sober .

1: Stay away from pubs clubs and parties . I do not care who I offend or what they think ,MY sobriety come before everything . TICK

2 : Avoid the drink isle in the supermarket if possible if not zone out and don't reminisce . TICK

3:Focus on 2018 as being a wonderful sober happy healthy year ,working on a plan for fitness ,working on plans for new garden or home projects . TICK

Be proud of your sobriety whether its a day a month or a year or more .Its yours , own it, hold on to it with dear love ,let no one or no thing take it away . and wishing each and every one of you a happy healthy sober prosperous new year .
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Old 12-28-2017, 06:04 PM
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much more you get the point

way too busy to think about drinking

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Old 12-28-2017, 06:51 PM
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Visit here daily; keep advancing my exercise regimen; keep up with the basics (mainly urge recognition); own my sobriety and make no apologies for it
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Old 12-28-2017, 07:50 PM
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Avoiding situations where people drink goes a long way.

Speaking of supermarkets the other day I saw a bar inside of a supermarket. I'm really glad they didn't have those around me when I was drinking. There were a couple of TVs and they had a decent crowd, in the middle of the store by the alcohol section. It was insane.
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Old 12-28-2017, 07:53 PM
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When I was early in recovery and got the urge to drink, I would walk my dogs instead. They got a lot of walks, which they liked, and I stayed sober.
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Old 12-28-2017, 11:36 PM
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A bar inside a supermarket ? unbelievable .
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Old 12-29-2017, 06:49 AM
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In the past when I've tried to get sober, I've focused a lot about what I'm NOT going to do, which is helpful to some extent. This time, I'm trying to focus on what I WILL do instead of drinking, which seems to work a little better so far (only on day 12, so we'll see, haha).

Drink lots of water
Use a heating pad to relax (I thought this was dumb until I tried it)
Plan projects, execute responsibilities (especially the tedious ones I've avoided in the past)
Try to serve others
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Old 12-29-2017, 02:06 PM
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Guided meditations have been a biggy for me...I use Head Space and cannot recommend it enough
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Old 12-29-2017, 02:08 PM
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Use a heating pad to relax (I thought this was dumb until I tried it)
I might give the heated pad a go...thanks 😊
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