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Old 10-30-2017, 07:26 AM
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New to this. Binge drinker

It's finally time to quit. I am 26 and have been a weekend drinker, sometimes to blackout on and off since 19. Strictly a beer drinker. I am coming off a 2 day night time binge, and enough is enough. Day 1.

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Old 10-30-2017, 07:31 AM
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Welcome to SR. You will find alot of support here. Please join the October Class where you will be very welcomed as a newbie to recovery and sobriety. Glad you found us!
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Old 10-30-2017, 07:32 AM
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Welcome. I am a newbie myself and have found the forum to have so many supportive people!! Congratulations on taking your first step.
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Old 10-30-2017, 07:37 AM
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Thank you very much! The biggest steps I've taken this far is joining this site, and telling the drinking crowd that I am done. (was not so easy to do as most of them are childhood friends.) My health, and quality of life are more important, and they are suffering from my drinking. I used to brush off hangovers in a morning, now they can last (mostly anxiety, no shakes or anything) upwards of 5 days.
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Old 10-30-2017, 08:34 AM
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Old 10-30-2017, 01:10 PM
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Hello and welcome.

You've already made some big steps.
I found as I got further and further into alcoholism, the anxiety became crippling.

You're smart to quit now while you're young. You're saving yourself a lot of misery.
Best to you.
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Old 10-30-2017, 01:18 PM
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Welcome !!!

Good decision. You will find lots and lots of support.. wisdom...friendship and empathy here. So many fantastic non judgmental that will help you , day or night.
Good Luck. Stay strong. xxxx Pebbles. xxxx
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Old 10-30-2017, 02:20 PM
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Thank you! I managed to string together 5 months last year, and then fell back into my old ways. I will stick close to the site, especially as the weekend creeps up.
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Old 11-06-2017, 07:36 AM
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Made it through the weekend. Was tough, but its done. This week will be easy as I am working all week, next weekend I will need support. It seems to be the biggest issue getting through the second weekend each time. Thanks
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Old 11-06-2017, 04:17 PM
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congrats Tubesy

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Old 11-06-2017, 04:43 PM
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Keep going, it gets better.
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Old 11-06-2017, 04:56 PM
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I was "strictly a beer drinker" too. (Except when I was drinking other stuff too.) Looking back it was another trap. "It's only beer." I don't really drink the harder stuff." etc. This ignores the fact that I was getting through terrifying amounts of the stuff and starting to favor the high ABV Steel Reserve, Fusion Rev, Zero Grav or whatever the hell those things were called...

Congrats on a great decision. Wish I could have had the common sense to stop much earlier, rather than basically saying "Yes, I'm an alcoholic but I've got years before I have to give up." I wasted so much time on this stupid drug it's painful to think about!
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Old 11-06-2017, 05:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Ghostlight1 View Post
Hello and welcome.

You've already made some big steps.
I found as I got further and further into alcoholism, the anxiety became crippling.

You're smart to quit now while you're young. You're saving yourself a lot of misery.
Best to you.
Yep, what the man said!
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Old 11-07-2017, 08:42 AM
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I appreciate all the responses. I am very dedicated to this, alcohol has taken too much from me even at a young age. I want to live my life with a clear and sober mind.
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Old 11-09-2017, 07:40 PM
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Hello Tubesy, great decision, you will not regret it. At 26 I recognized that I had a problem as well, only I kept going for another 11 years and wasted so much valuable time. Good luck and keep posting, you got this.
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Old 11-09-2017, 07:57 PM
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Welcome and congrats on making this step in a great direction!!
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Old 11-11-2017, 08:11 AM
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After two weeks, I drank. 6 tallboys, and 2 pints at the bar. I am not going to give up. AA is not for me, I have tried. Anyone have any other recommendations?
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Old 11-11-2017, 08:33 AM
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Hi Tubesy. My advice would be get back on the horse. Two weeks was a great start, now try and build on it. Try and figure out why you drank so you can have strategies to stop it next time. I'm putting together my first proper recovery plan, which feels really empowering. I had seven weeks then relapse. Back to three and a half weeks sober now. It's all about strategies for me and different ways to cope with situations and difficult feelings. Look around for threads for recovery plans (sorry, I don't know how to share the link!) and best of luck to you. You can do it.
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Old 11-11-2017, 08:35 AM
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Ps maybe individual counselling too. Has been a life saver for me in the past x
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Old 11-12-2017, 11:03 AM
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I was having a bad week, and when the craving came I didn't think twice. I drank for two days. I am on day 1 and scared of withdrawals (which I have been told is ridiculous due to my drinking habits) Anxiety is a horrible thing. Mind is trying to convince me my heart will stop. I almost went and bought a few cans, but had beaten that craving, I am reading the AA book, and may consider giving meetings another try.

I really want to do this, and have finally realized I need help. I can't do it alone
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