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Old 08-15-2017, 02:20 PM
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(Re)Learning To Fly

There's a raptor rehabilitation center not far from where I live. Volunteers can frequently be seen helping the birds -- hawks, owls, eagles and more -- get closer to freedom after injury or whatever other reason brought them to the center. The birds are tethered to the volunteers, who launch them into practice flights that ready them for the day when they can fly on their own. They're beautiful; their wingspans are breathtaking.

For a recovering alcoholic, the metaphors are pretty inescapable.

When you're at the beginning of recovery, it's hard to imagine that you'll fly again. You can't really envision anything beyond the wobbly, tentative stage you're in. You have to relearn it. As time goes by, you're launched. And the idea that you can soar -- a verb that once seemed to have been stricken from your vocabulary -- isn't so impossible anymore.

Today is my four-year sober anniversary.

I'm not the same person I was a year ago. A year from now, I won't be the same person.

I'm grateful to be growing again. I'm grateful for so very much.

Thank you, SR.
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Old 08-15-2017, 02:30 PM
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Fantastic well done
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Beautiful post Venecia 💜

Congratulations on 4 years of sobriety x
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Thank you for such a beautiful post, Venecia. I adore the image of flexing sober wings and learning to fly, then soar.

Congratulations on your four years sober anniversary, that's an awesome achievement.
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What a beautiful post, Venecia - you really have a way with words... not that it's first time I've noticed it today I love your methaphor about the volunteers helping injured birds to fly, very appropriate in many ways - how we support each-other at different stages or recovery and life, here, and via all kinds of important connections. Re-learn almost forgotten good things in life and discover entirely new possibilities.

Congratulations on four years of sobriety and continuing evolution!
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Lovely, heartfelt, valuable post. Thank you Venecia. Four years - how fabulous.
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Congratulations on 4 years, Venecia!

Thank you for such an inspirational post.

I hope to find a published book by you one day.

I would be your biggest fan. I love your writing.
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Great post Venecia ty - and congratulations on 4 years!

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As Joan Didion said, "I have already lost touch with a couple of people I used to be...”

Recovery is all about growing and changing. Congratulations on your achievements.
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What an insightful post Allison and congratulations on a wonderful achievement.
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Old 08-15-2017, 05:27 PM
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Inspiring! 4 years is quite the accomplishment.
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Happy birthday, sweet friend. I've gained so much from your presence on this board. Thank you so much for being here & for strengthening my commitment to sobriety. It's an honor to be on this journey with you. May you continue to soar!

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Your sharing has an elder-ness to it, as it should for one who has indeed taken flight.

Glad you are on this journey with us Venecia; happy bday friend.

Fly......
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Congrats on four years sober and thanks for the reminder that it's possible.

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Thank you so much.

Allocating my time, including that spent online, has meant I'm not posting here as much these days. But my heart is here. So grateful for the good wishes from friends.

If you're new, please know you can do this.
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Congratulations Dear Venecia! !! 4 years is such a tremendous accomplishment! We are all learning to soar again, together. I also thank SR.
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