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Old 07-30-2017, 11:35 AM
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almost gave in

So I was lost, with no service and my gas light on. I was freaking out!

I had myself convinced that once I found my way back I was stopping by the liquor store because life isn't fair and I shouldn't have even been in that situation anyway.

I was almost there but I pulled into a gas station first and boom!! The urge was completely gone! I couldn't believe it. I went home and didn't look back.

I guess I didn't really believe that if you just wait it out it will go away. But it's 100% true!

I'm really happy right now

Ps. 7 days for me today!
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Old 07-30-2017, 11:47 AM
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Great job Sdjfam! I'll remember this for my own sobriety. Oh, and congrats on 7 days!
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Old 07-30-2017, 11:49 AM
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Good for you and congrats on a week sober!
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Old 07-30-2017, 12:05 PM
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Well done Sdjfam and congratulations on 7 days.

I early recovery even quite minor stressful situations throw us into wanting to drink but the diminish over time.
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So pleased for you that you didn't Sdjfam...congrats on 7 days 🎉🎉🎉
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Old 07-30-2017, 01:01 PM
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Way to go, sdjfam! I've found that if you actually physically time the urges, it's amazing how fleeting they really are.

What I think is funny looking back is how many excuses we could come up with for "needing" or "deserving" to drink: Being lost, Not getting lost; Having a bad day, Having a good day; Being sad, Being happy; Losing a job; Getting a promotion; Feeling life is unfair; Feeling we need to celebrate; Feeling young and silly, so why not; Feeling old and hopeless, so why not. Feeling stressed, Feeling like kicking back.

On and on. It makes no sense.

The sooner we recognize those false excuses (AV lies), the better
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Old 07-30-2017, 01:12 PM
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Way to go, sdjfam! I've found that if you actually physically time the urges, it's amazing how fleeting they really are.

What I think is funny looking back is how many excuses we could come up with for "needing" or "deserving" to drink: Being lost, Not getting lost; Having a bad day, Having a good day; Being sad, Being happy; Losing a job; Getting a promotion; Feeling life is unfair; Feeling we need to celebrate; Feeling young and silly, so why not; Feeling old and hopeless, so why not. Feeling stressed, Feeling like kicking back.

On and on. It makes no sense.

The sooner we recognize those false excuses (AV lies), the better

That has been my life for the past 12 years. I'm very excited to finally break the cycle!

Thank you!
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Old 07-30-2017, 01:15 PM
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Originally Posted by tealily View Post
Way to go, sdjfam! I've found that if you actually physically time the urges, it's amazing how fleeting they really are.

What I think is funny looking back is how many excuses we could come up with for "needing" or "deserving" to drink: Being lost, Not getting lost; Having a bad day, Having a good day; Being sad, Being happy; Losing a job; Getting a promotion; Feeling life is unfair; Feeling we need to celebrate; Feeling young and silly, so why not; Feeling old and hopeless, so why not. Feeling stressed, Feeling like kicking back.

On and on. It makes no sense.

The sooner we recognize those false excuses (AV lies), the better
Great post. So true.
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Old 07-30-2017, 05:06 PM
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Old 07-30-2017, 05:12 PM
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Well done. Now you know you can do it. Good for you😀
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Old 07-30-2017, 06:08 PM
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I'm glad you got through that Sdjfam
congrats on your week

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