21 days
You don't go 21 days without putting a few tools in the Sober toolbox, we can't change the past but we can write a new chapter to our future!!
Tweak your plan, go at things again and you'll get there!!
Tweak your plan, go at things again and you'll get there!!
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Personally, I found that hating myself and spending all of my energy focusing on the regret and shame and self loathing actually drove me to continue the cycle, rather than deter me from it.
I've been trying to work on making peace with my past transgressions, and focus on the future and allowing myself to feel that I deserve to feel better and not to punish myself by repeating my drinking behaviours, and this is really working for me. It is tough, and at times I feel pangs of guilt and shame for my past behaviour, but I just tell myself that I have to let go of those feelings and focus on preventing myself continuing along that trajectory.
I hope you can begin to forgive yourself, too, and allow yourself the opportunity to move forward.
All the best.
Hi Hez - maybe you need to look at your reovery plan - do you need more support? Do you need to use the support you have more effectively?
Are there things in your life that tend to push you towards drinking? How can you change them?
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Are there things in your life that tend to push you towards drinking? How can you change them?
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Some really good introductory Ideas on plans here Hez:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...very-plan.html
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http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...very-plan.html
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