Thought I could handle it.....what a joke!!!
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Thought I could handle it.....what a joke!!!
So what a surprise....back here again! I thought I could handle it, like we all done at some point but no, starting to hide stuff from my husband & I've been getting drunk about twice a week, really hate myself right now! Husband has pretty much said he doesn't think he can out up with it anymore...i just feel lost & it's all my fault...when it comes to drink I just find it too hard to say no!!!!
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Originally Posted by loulou1981 
...when it comes to drink I just find it too hard to say no!!!!
You struggled before your marriage to get sober, and struggling after. If you want your marriage to continue, drinking is going to have go. Wouldn't you say? And to do that you are going to have to do some of the things you've been avoiding, like a structured program of recovery.
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I needed to stay away from slippery places and slippery people until I felt secure in my sobriety. Like people said to me, I needed to be willing to make changes. Because if nothing changes, then nothing will change.
Glad you're back. Have you thought about making a plan?
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Glad you're back. Have you thought about making a plan?
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Originally Posted by SoberLeigh
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