Boyfriend in rehab said he went to an invite only meeting at some guys house...
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Boyfriend in rehab said he went to an invite only meeting at some guys house...
My boyfriend is bi-sexual and in a men's only sober living house. He has been going to meetings everyday, and does IOP. He has not gotten a sponsor yet, and when he had his 30 days on Sunday he has not gotten his coin/tag yet. He keeps telling me that he hasn't been to a meeting where they were giving them out yet.
Now about a week ago he told me that he went over to a guys place that holds an invite only meeting, and they sit around and discuss...things, he didn't specify. The name of the "meeting" had a weird sexual type vibe, like Cuddle Couch or something similar. I can't really remember. I commented on it, and was concerned he was out at someone's house when he wasn't off his blackout period, but I assumed that meant someone from the house was with him, but who knows.
Are there such things as legit invite only meetings, and if there are would they invite someone with less than 30 days clean?
Thanks.
Now about a week ago he told me that he went over to a guys place that holds an invite only meeting, and they sit around and discuss...things, he didn't specify. The name of the "meeting" had a weird sexual type vibe, like Cuddle Couch or something similar. I can't really remember. I commented on it, and was concerned he was out at someone's house when he wasn't off his blackout period, but I assumed that meant someone from the house was with him, but who knows.
Are there such things as legit invite only meetings, and if there are would they invite someone with less than 30 days clean?
Thanks.
I'd trust your instincts IAYW, but do you want to oversee his recovery? Is it bothering you that he may not be following the program, or that he might be straying?
My boyfriend is bi-sexual and in a men's only sober living house.
He has not gotten a sponsor yet,
he has not gotten his coin/tag yet.
He keeps telling me that he hasn't been to a meeting where they were giving them out yet.
"meeting" had a weird sexual type vibe, like Cuddle Couch or something similar.
aproach with much caution.
M-Bob
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