Tattootracie

Never actually done this before..
Not sure where to start ....

least

Welcome to the family. How can we help you?

Mattq2

I never did it before either when I first started. Now I cant stop doing it but I'm not drinking .

I'm glad that you found us. Maybe start by telling us a little about you.

I spent 14 years drunk almost everyday. You will find awesome people here that have a wealth of experience and knowledge. We all kind of look after each other. How can we help you😀

Tattootracie

I'm kind of in a downwards spiral. And have decided this has to change. I found you guys and here I am I guess !

IN2Q

You came to the right place, the people here are great at listening and understanding.
Why don't you try them out, tell them whats troubling you.

Mattq2

You don't have to be in that downward spiral. You can learn so much here about making a plan, AA, and many other programs that may help you

Hevyn

Great to meet you, Tattootracie. We're a friendly & encouraging group - and we understand what you're going through.

Tattootracie

My alcohol history is about 7 years. I lost both my parents in 12 month and kind of lost the plot. I need to re
find me

Tattootracie

If I don't reply I apologise I actually have no idea what I'm doing lol

Dee74

Hi and welcome Tracie

You doing fine with the reply thing


Quitting can be hard at times, but this is a great place for understanding advice and support - glad to have you here

Have you tried to quit before?

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Tattootracie

No I haven't but tomorrow is my start day ....

IN2Q

Setting a date is a great way to start, I look forward to seeing you more during your first week to the rest of your wonderful sober life.

Mattq2

I really had to sit down and make a plan of how I would handle the first few days. For me it was a series of little things. Having structured meal times really helped. Kept a big jug of tea in the frig so I could have a glass of something in my hand. Got rid of all the alcohol in the house. The biggest thing for me was I would always drink after work so after dinner it was sit down and read and post on SR. There is a stories of recovery forum that really helped and gave me hope.

Just jump on here and start typing if need be. We all understand and have been where you are

Tattootracie

Thank u that means a lot and makes sense too. It's my day off work tomorrow and I'm taking my youngest to the cinema.

Tattootracie

Thank you x

Tattootracie

I'm scared I'll fail

Eastcoaster20

Welcome to SR! I'm currently on day 3 and have found the people here an immense help. I've literally been logged in all weekend reading through every thread I can. It helps so much knowing you're not alone.

Tattootracie

That is my plan too x

Mattq2

You can do it tracie, so many people here have. Stay in touch we are here for you

IN2Q

You are not alone, I am scared of failing. I keep reminding myself of how much I want to be sober, I want my life back. and that has kept me on track.