A Codependent Almost Relapse

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Old 12-22-2016, 06:15 PM
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A Codependent Almost Relapse

I almost relapsed today when I saw a couple at a bar who reminded me of "us."

I went to lunch with a friend at a place where STBXAH and I went once a week for wine and pizza.

I had been having a good time up until I saw this couple.

Regrouped- went for a manicure- told myself- be smart- go elsewhere for lunch from now on.

Sigh
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Old 12-22-2016, 06:27 PM
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Your post from early September:
***so what is wrong with me that I miss him? He was obnoxious at times, rude to me, and self-centered. It was bothering me today that I will probably not be in a marriage ever again. I feel jealous of people who have a happy marriage. I am 62 and besides I probably don't pick well. ***

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Old 12-22-2016, 07:25 PM
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"Elsewhere for lunch" sounds like a good plan Q!

Sigh, most of us can probably understand this!
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Old 12-23-2016, 07:18 AM
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Wow, way to identify a trigger & sidestep it like a PRO!

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