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Old 12-08-2016, 08:25 PM
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I have no choice my neighbor just died

About I was sitting here ordering Chinese because I finally got my appetite back. We (my bf) and I were eating, he left for work. I told him I would be okay (sober).

Just now, my neighbor called 911 and he's dead...alcohol! Watching the paramedics put his lifeless body into the ambulance. He was actually holding a bottle of brandy....heart stopped/high blood pressure

I'm so hurt !
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Old 12-08-2016, 08:26 PM
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This hurts! Just to see it up close
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Old 12-08-2016, 08:28 PM
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I',m sorry VQ. It is confronting and hard to lose people we know and been friends with.

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The police just came to my house becaswe he hlives alone..I'm so torn right now. He and I drank together. His watch and keys were on my deck
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hold on there and take care yourself. Its sad ending, but that might give you more reason to stop drinking. Keep posting here
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Old 12-08-2016, 08:49 PM
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I need a call please
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Old 12-08-2016, 08:53 PM
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Gping to ER now
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Old 12-08-2016, 09:04 PM
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I'm not sure whats going on but the ER is a good call if you think you need it.
Let us known how you are later, ok?

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Old 12-08-2016, 09:10 PM
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Originally Posted by VibrantQueen View Post
About I was sitting here ordering Chinese because I finally got my appetite back. We (my bf) and I were eating, he left for work. I told him I would be okay (sober).

Just now, my neighbor called 911 and he's dead...alcohol! Watching the paramedics put his lifeless body into the ambulance. He was actually holding a bottle of brandy....heart stopped/high blood pressure

I'm so hurt !
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That's so scary how old was your neighbor?
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Old 12-09-2016, 01:56 AM
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I am so sorry!! It is just so painful to lose someone we know and love!
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Old 12-09-2016, 02:08 AM
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Keep safe, please. Grief is mental and emotional shock- if you can stay with someone. PJ
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Old 12-09-2016, 04:25 AM
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best wishes to you at an awful time.
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Old 12-09-2016, 04:40 AM
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I am sorry about your neighbor. I hope your doing okay this morning...
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Old 12-09-2016, 05:27 AM
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I'm sorry to hear about your neighbor, VQ. May peace be with you in your time of loss.
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Old 12-09-2016, 06:41 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear about this VQ.

All my thoughts are with you and the family of your poor neighbour.
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Old 12-09-2016, 11:51 AM
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So sorry for your lose VibrantQueen!!
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Old 12-10-2016, 11:25 AM
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He's probably going to ER is what I'm thinking
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Old 12-10-2016, 02:05 PM
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He's probably going to ER is what I'm thinking
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Old 12-10-2016, 02:13 PM
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How are you doing VibrantQueen?

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