Winslows'way out
On day 3,no I don't know what caused the relapse, Tuesday started out ok,I exercised,went to work same as usual but around noon the craving started creeping in,I just tried to ignore it wondering what the cause was,started driving home and was thinking of stopping at several gas stations along the way, didn't but then did end up stopping at a gas station that I never go to cuz I knew once I got home I wouldn't go back out but once I bought it, I knew I'd drink it,stupid really, I could've came home and walked, took a nap ,took the emergency antabuse pill I keep In my purse(what for if I don't use it?) I got really sick and drunk off a lesser amount than I'm used to,the next morning I drank at work but I was pretty obvious, I used to be able to hide it very well when I was a daily drinker,came home carried on,woke up Thursday which was supposed to be day one,couldn't get through the shakes so I bought enough just to stop them but my goodness the dehydrated feeling and dry eyes were horrible! Today I was at the grocery store and I seen this poor guy get caught trying to steal a 24- pack of Natural Ice,I just felt pity for him while the clerks were angry and disgusted,nobody understands what a grip this has unless they've gone through it,that's it for now.
There just isn't any light for us on that old road anymore - and I know recovery can be daunting too - last night I was craving wine like crazy and was all alone in my sober, tired, pissed off brain while everyone around me was drinking.
But today was better.
The next time that horrible craving comes on, take the antabuse, come here and post, fight like hell. Blessings to you
But today was better.
The next time that horrible craving comes on, take the antabuse, come here and post, fight like hell. Blessings to you
Hi winslow
maybe instead of tryng to work out what the cause is/was, it's better to deal with the immediate problem and reach out at those times and ask for help?
brushing up on and thinking of a few of these tips might help too?
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-cravings.html
D
the craving started creeping in,I just tried to ignore it wondering what the cause was,
brushing up on and thinking of a few of these tips might help too?
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-cravings.html
D
Day 4, was reading the link Dee shared and when she said that she followed a hypoglycemia diet that really hit me,I've had blood sugar issues when sober for awhile now and I think getting it under control will help,gorging on sugar in the evening is only making it worse the next day,also I think it's time to give up smoking for realz and not dink around with quitting anymore! I think smoking and drinking go hand in hand, besides I've had dental issues lately and we all know smoking is horrible for teeth/gums,more later
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Day 4, was reading the link Dee shared and when she said that she followed a hypoglycemia diet that really hit me,I've had blood sugar issues when sober for awhile now and I think getting it under control will help,gorging on sugar in the evening is only making it worse the next day,also I think it's time to give up smoking for realz and not dink around with quitting anymore! I think smoking and drinking go hand in hand, besides I've had dental issues lately and we all know smoking is horrible for teeth/gums,more later
It was CarolDs link Dee shared today has gone by ok,little brain foggy and tired but got through a busy day at work and now watching little g-son,only got close to 7,100 steps on fitbit so maybe I'll work on that too today.
Today is better, I'm tired but it's ok I'm getting plenty of sleep at night, dreams have been weird, mostly about overeating spaghetti of all things,I don't care for spaghetti so what a strange dream 2 nights in a row? Learned today not to put so much effort into fighting the craving feelings,let them float in and float out,if I fight them too much it gives them more power! Trying to be mindful and in the present, accept bad moods and know they pass,trying to work on vits and supps been researching some,I did use a herb called kudzu back in my moderating days and it did work but I remember it giving me headaches and low blood sugar but I might consider it again cuz campral gave me anxiety and I feel like I need something for cravings for a little while
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