Expanding

We both signed a POA and the close is happening right now. I am feeling a huge mix of emotions. I see what we could have been… the way the sale went (once it was ON the market) was so easy and quick and we are walking away with a profit. Instead of seeing what can NOW BE my mind is latching on to what could have BEEN.

He was telling me that being in the house hurt and he is sad and then we ended up falling into old habits and start joking about the buyers and how annoying they were being…. old habits die hard. After today there is no reason for us to communicate at all so it will be interesting to see how I do with no contact. I did it for a couple months earlier this year when I trusted in what was going on with the refinance but I remember how HARD it was at first. I ended up feeling better eventually so I just need to hold on to that… and this time it can keep getting better and better until things are good and I don’t even think about it anymore.
I know this is for the best but I still feel like am going to puke.

This is really it.

Kboys

Big hugs to you Expanding!! What a monumental step you have taken today!

It is for the best, and it will get easier from here, with time.

Be good to yourself today

gbriezy

I'm so sorry, that sounds really painful. Just take a deep breath and focus on all of the amazing possibilities this fresh start is offering up to you. You'll do great.

TimeForMe

Sending you positive thoughts.