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Old 08-19-2016, 08:28 AM
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I did it.

So my wife went out of town for 10 days and I did not drink. I actually felt a sense of pride in doing so. It was the biggest test to date of my commitment.

I apologize for not being as active on the forum as much anymore. I read everyday, but I guess I don't have much to contribute. I think I have adjusted to my new life and of course I'm busy getting started in my new career. License # was issued 2 days ago, so its official. I am past the white knuckling stage and am simply focused on other things. Still on my health kick which helps and working again also helps.

Enough about me, I hope everyone is doing well, although I see some are struggling and that's what this forum is all about (in my opinion). I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend, and regarding the Olympics...go USA!
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Old 08-19-2016, 08:38 AM
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Yay!!! Good for you!
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Old 08-19-2016, 08:55 AM
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That is great! Good job Jeff!
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Old 08-19-2016, 08:58 AM
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Good job Thomas! That makes two of us, wife and kids are back tomorrow when I'll be on day 11. Very first time I will not be on day 1!

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Old 08-19-2016, 10:08 AM
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Great job. A very tough test completed.
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Old 08-19-2016, 10:47 AM
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Nice work Jeff. I have to admit you were sounding a bit sketchy when you were posting about it early on ( when she first left ) and I was worried. Very glad you were able to stay sober.
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Old 08-19-2016, 11:12 AM
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I should maybe modify my OP when I said I felt "proud". It wasn't so much a sense of pride as it was a feeling of appropriateness. I acted responsibly. I made my meals, did my dishes, took care of the dog, filled the bird feeder, watered and picked the tomatoes, made my bed everyday. Didn't leave the toothpaste and shaving cream on the sink counter. Worked out and even did a couple loads of laundry. Ya know....stuff normal people do. That's a more accurate way of explaining it.
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Old 08-19-2016, 11:23 AM
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Nicely done, Thomas/Jeff! I'm proud of you.
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Old 08-19-2016, 11:57 AM
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Good for you Thomas 11 ,glad you got through this .
I read somewhere "You judge your character by how you behave when nobody is watching. "
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Old 08-19-2016, 12:03 PM
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Being at home alone is tough for me, too. Great job making it through.
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Old 08-19-2016, 12:23 PM
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Old 08-19-2016, 12:25 PM
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Old 08-19-2016, 03:00 PM
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Hi Jeff

Pride gets bad press, but I think it's perfectly ok to be proud of a hard earned achievement. Congrats

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Old 08-19-2016, 04:07 PM
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Great work, Jeff! I've been less active for similar reasons... focussing on real life issues, but SR remains such a valuable place. Full of good supportive people, like you. We struggle, we get back on track, and we have successes to be proud of (like you have) .
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Old 08-19-2016, 04:10 PM
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Great, Jeff! I think it's perfectly fine to be proud making it through a time historically challenging for us. But I get what you are saying.

Now you have a "sober reference" for your wife's annual trip (I think from courage2 is where I first heard the phrase).
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Old 08-19-2016, 04:11 PM
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I agree - it's certainly appropriate to be proud. Very happy you rose to the occasion, Jeff. I'm not surprised.
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Old 08-19-2016, 04:55 PM
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Good to hear .
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Old 08-19-2016, 05:31 PM
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Fantastic Jeff!!

Been following the Olympics, it's great, oh btw surely you'll be sticking around for the new NFL season?!!
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Old 08-19-2016, 06:16 PM
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Very well done Sir!!! Sounds like you're very busy... Which I know can be a very good thing! Best wishes tonight as always! Hope you have a great weekend too...

Go USA!
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Old 08-19-2016, 06:21 PM
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Jeff, I totally understand how important it was to you to do things that ordinary people do.
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