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Old 07-15-2016, 10:50 AM
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I feel so terrible

So this week has been pretty busy for my youngest DD who is 10. Ballgames on odd nights, etc. I just took she and my other daughter lunch, and she said something that made me realize she thinks today is Thursday, not Friday. She is at her dads this weekend.

I told her, and she was very disappointed. After I left, my other DD called me and told me she is in her room, crying. I called her, she said she is fine, however, she is crying.

I feel so bad. I hate that kids have to go stay the night at a parents house that they don't want to. I hate all of this. My heart just breaks for her. Before anyone suggests, yes, she has to go. No, she is not going to call her dad and tell her she does not want to come, nor am I. It just does not work that way.

Hopefully she will cheer up some this afternoon. I've been worried about her, she seems to spend a lot of time by herself. However, she is also social and has a blast with friends too, so I don't know. We have counseling this week, good thing. Sigh.
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(((HUGS))) Hopeful.
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Old 07-15-2016, 11:52 AM
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It's so hard for the both of you ......((hugs))
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Old 07-15-2016, 11:57 AM
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I'm so sorry Hopeful.
It's heartbreaking to see your children hurting
Hope she is feeling better soon
Hugs to all!
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Sending lots of love to all of you, Hopeful.
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Old 07-15-2016, 01:05 PM
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Hugs and thoughts your way, what a tough situation. So sorry to hear you are going through this today.
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Old 07-15-2016, 08:23 PM
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That's hard..praying for your sweeties!
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Old 07-15-2016, 08:40 PM
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Awww that is so tough for both her and you! Sending hugs! Good idea re maybe discussing in counselling this coming week.
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Old 07-15-2016, 08:51 PM
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I hope she started feeling better, Hopeful. It's really hard to see our kids in pain, especially when it's nothing we can help them through other than letting them know we love them. Hugs
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