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Old 07-03-2016, 06:12 PM
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76 days today

And it has been HARD WORK. The hardest thing I've ever done. Many rough nights, some crying with longing for the oblivion of the bottle. And I continue to crave - or yearn - for my wine. But then I think about how many hangovers, mornings of shame, secrets, dollars, and hours isolating from my family I have avoided. I am even more overweight than I was before but a close friend who I saw today (who doesn't know) said I look amazing and at peace and wondered where it came from.
This feels like the beginning of a journey. I can't express how much I wish I had embarked on it 10 or 15 years ago (I'm 49), but I did embark and I look forward to a much more fulfilled and meaningful life going forward.
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Congratulations!!! So awesome! I have gained weight too but I know I'm more healthy for not putting wine into my system and liver! And, I'm 49 too. We need to look forward and not behind Congratulations again!
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Congratulations! 76 days is great!
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76 days is amazing!!! Now the days will start to really add up and it will be easier as you go along.

Hooray for you!
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Congrats! Well done, and keep it going. It will be easier the longer you are sober.
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Hi - good to hear form you jseattle

76 days is great - I hope the way will get a little easier soon for you...the first 90 days were harder than what followed

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Congrats on 76 days!! Very inspiring post for those just beginning their journey too. Keep working hard, it gets better and better!
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Old 07-03-2016, 08:30 PM
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Congrats on 76 days! I can relate. I have 82 days and this has been very difficult. It's not my first time trying but it's the most honest effort I've given - no doubt.

I've gained weight also. I know this is all temporary though and the rewards will be worth it.

Keep up the good work and God bless!
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Old 07-03-2016, 08:39 PM
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Originally Posted by jseattle View Post
And it has been HARD WORK. The hardest thing I've ever done. Many rough nights, some crying with longing for the oblivion of the bottle. And I continue to crave - or yearn - for my wine. But then I think about how many hangovers, mornings of shame, secrets, dollars, and hours isolating from my family I have avoided. I am even more overweight than I was before but a close friend who I saw today (who doesn't know) said I look amazing and at peace and wondered where it came from.
This feels like the beginning of a journey. I can't express how much I wish I had embarked on it 10 or 15 years ago (I'm 49), but I did embark and I look forward to a much more fulfilled and meaningful life going forward.
Awesome on day 76!! And I highlighted those parts because I know exactly what you mean. I am not where I want to be weight-wise - but everyone - consistently, unprovoked, openly- tells me I look just as you described your friend said to you. Better than ever.

And that's what we are, and are becoming.

Keep going!
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Old 07-03-2016, 09:08 PM
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Congratulations on 76 days!
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Old 07-04-2016, 01:35 AM
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Big grats on 76 days Jseattle
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Old 07-04-2016, 09:37 AM
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Great job jseattle, there is a saying that goes like this: nothing worthwhile is ever easy, I for one believe there is some truth to that.
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Old 07-04-2016, 10:19 AM
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76 days is no small achievement, really well done.
I get the age thing, I'm 50 and really wanted to be a sober 50 (also wish I'd seen the light years ago, but hey........ We are where we are )
I am sober at 50, you can be too.
Stick with it and lots of luck.
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Old 07-04-2016, 11:38 AM
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Congratulations on your hard, daily work. You are changing your life! It is a huge deal!!!
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Old 07-04-2016, 01:48 PM
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Congratulations on 76 days Jseattle😊
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Congrats on 76 days sober! Keep going, it gets better.
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