Quackalicious things they say
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Quackalicious things they say
Sometimes we have to find humor in the things they say, right?
Otherwise, one might go mad. Reminding myself and sharing helps me move forward with my end goal (get out for real this time).
It is getting easier to detach and recognize how ridiculous the things he says (and untrue) really are.
Please share some of your faves.
Is there a reason why you treat our son like a dog? Said by STBXABF on 5/31/16
After calling for my son (in a loving way) to tell him I wanted a hug.
Even when he DOES have money, it is his.
I am ‘greedy’ for asking for money for rent, bills, food, and childcare.
Isn’t it ‘enough’ that he co-exists with me? Those are my feelings/reactions to what he argues when I ask for cash-ola to help with things
It is ‘my fault’ that he isn’t successful.
If I would have listened to him tell me 9 years ago that he didn’t want to be with me, then he would be a different person today.
Says the man who had no job and no vehicle WHEN I met him. Wait, I digress, he did have a 20 hr/week job making $12/hr and him mommy still paid his rent then. All his money was his then too. He didn’t give his mom any unless she strong-armed him. And when he lost his home that his mom was paying for, who did he live with them. He always treated me like **** and like he didn’t want to be with me even when he was living in my house. He would make fun of me with others in the house.
Otherwise, one might go mad. Reminding myself and sharing helps me move forward with my end goal (get out for real this time).
It is getting easier to detach and recognize how ridiculous the things he says (and untrue) really are.
Please share some of your faves.
Is there a reason why you treat our son like a dog? Said by STBXABF on 5/31/16
After calling for my son (in a loving way) to tell him I wanted a hug.
Even when he DOES have money, it is his.
I am ‘greedy’ for asking for money for rent, bills, food, and childcare.
Isn’t it ‘enough’ that he co-exists with me? Those are my feelings/reactions to what he argues when I ask for cash-ola to help with things
It is ‘my fault’ that he isn’t successful.
If I would have listened to him tell me 9 years ago that he didn’t want to be with me, then he would be a different person today.
Says the man who had no job and no vehicle WHEN I met him. Wait, I digress, he did have a 20 hr/week job making $12/hr and him mommy still paid his rent then. All his money was his then too. He didn’t give his mom any unless she strong-armed him. And when he lost his home that his mom was paying for, who did he live with them. He always treated me like **** and like he didn’t want to be with me even when he was living in my house. He would make fun of me with others in the house.
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