Maw

Hi. Im Maw and i am the mother-daughter of alcoholics. And i need your help!!! I need find and get to a afternoon Alanon meeting in the 92078, 92069, 92025 zip codes.

I foolishly allowed my 38 yr old homeless alcoholic son to move into my house for 2 months til he could find a medi-cal paid rehab & sober living...15 mo ago. He stopped meetings, left rehab after 3 wks and has no-call- no-showed about 8 good jobs after the 1st paycheck ( spent all on binges using his entire earnings, losing his walket, cell phones , etc).

. NOW he tells me ive created a TENANT Relationship (despite no rent or other pymts)and i cannot make him leave!!

HE MAY NOT HAVE HIT HIS BOTTOM BUT I SURE HAVE HIT MINE. Thank u for listening. I welcome all positive remarks ( cz i already know im stupid and should have detatched with love 13 mo ago!!)

Gottalife

Hi Maw,
I can't help with the zip codes, but I can tell you that you are not stupid. You are just as much a victim of alcoholism as your son, andI think you are wise to be seeking help for yourself.

All the best

Upward2Enlightenment

Welcome Maw

You can look up Al anon meeting here. Al anon meeting serch

I would contact a lawyer about kicking him out. Even if he is considered a tenant by the state you can still throw him out, you just have to follow certain procedures.

You may also want to check out the http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/#friends-family section

Best wishes

JD

Try here, http://al-anon.info/MeetingSearch/Al...px?language=EN

least

I would also advise you to see a lawyer about throwing him out. You could also wait til he's out of the house and put his stuff outside for him and change the locks.

Soberwolf

Welcome Maw

thomas11

Not stupid, just got what we call here in the Midwest "hornschwaggled". Try to retain your sanity and find a solution.