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Old 05-24-2016, 02:12 AM
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I have just returned, due to the fact that I have fallen off the wagon again. I feel lousy and ashamed again, but will try again.
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Old 05-24-2016, 02:19 AM
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Welcome back, although I am just new here
You the great thing? You came back so that is something to feel proud of I belive anyways

Try again and try harder and you can do it
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Old 05-24-2016, 02:22 AM
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I think I will feel lousy to begin with, but I am determined to try.
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Old 05-24-2016, 02:23 AM
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yeah i am feeling like that today, as I am not proud of my saturday night and the person I am, but i need to learn my lesson and that's it

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Old 05-24-2016, 02:26 AM
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Welcome back Ian - whats the plan?

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Old 05-24-2016, 03:29 AM
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My plan is to take one day at a time. Yesterday I was drunk today I am sober.
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Old 05-24-2016, 03:32 AM
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I have just returned, due to the fact that I have fallen off the wagon again. I feel lousy and ashamed again, but will try again.
Good to see you here on this early sober morning.
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Old 05-24-2016, 03:41 AM
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Welcome bk Ian
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Old 05-24-2016, 03:47 AM
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My plan is to take one day at a time. Yesterday I was drunk today I am sober.
A plan's vital I think - it can help ensure that you stay sober

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ery-plans.html

The reason I asked really was to encourage you to post here more. I think you'd get a lot out of being a regular poster here

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Old 05-24-2016, 04:10 AM
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Welcome Home, Ian!
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Old 05-24-2016, 04:12 AM
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"but will try again"

The most important words in your post!



I'm so glad you're back. Do you have a plan of combat the next time you feel like drinking? Come here and post, do anything, drinking is not an option.

Never give up, never.
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Old 05-24-2016, 04:14 AM
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Glad you're back, trying again. I hope our support can help you get sober for good. It takes some effort but it really is worth it.
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Old 05-24-2016, 04:51 AM
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Figure out what you will do when tempted--exercise? movie?
hiking?

I joined a gym and started cooking healthy food--that kept me acting
in a positive way and distracted me from the boring stretches I used to drink in.

Good luck Ian and irishguy
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Old 05-24-2016, 04:52 AM
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Welcome back Ian. Is today day 1?
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Old 05-24-2016, 06:13 AM
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Hi Ian,

Welcome back!! I have also had many day ones, and after attempting moderation (unsuccessfully) a few times I would find myself back to square one.

January 1st I committed to make this the first of many sober years. SR, particularly the January class has been my biggest support. I read and post several times a day. Reading about successes and struggles has allowed me to continue to add to my recovery plan. I also love the incredible support I receive from SR members, and when someone else is struggling I get to be that support for them.

Dee's link is a great one. Why don't you spend some time today reading and posting and jot down some ideas that will work for you. Also, make sure you have something planned for whatever your "witching hour," was. Mine was around 6:00, I knew I needed to plan to go for a walk, read, exercise, bubble bath, do something with the kids, I just needed to be busy.

Looking forward to hearing about your journey!!

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Old 05-24-2016, 06:16 AM
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Back on the horse that's the way

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