Brutal
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Brutal
So let the psychological warfare begin!
Since my last post, my AH was served with the order of protection for our kids and myself, and he should be served with the divorce papers today. He has not attempted to contact me which has been a relief in a way. He has been transferring all of his craziness to my dad now which makes me feel horrible. My dad is keeping the lines of communication open with him in the hopes that he will finally decide to get help. Judging from his actions so far, I don't have high hopes of that.
After the protection order was served, he had a policeman escort him to the house. where he proceeded to trash the place and break things. The cop did nothing. Now he is posting brutal things about me on social media about how much of a liar I am and a deadbeat mom for keeping him away from his kids. I guess I shouldn't expect any better from him. But after 20 years together, he sure knows how to hurt me. I'm trying to stay positive and hope that the people who truly know me won't believe the lies. Just really hurtful, and I'm so struggling right now.
Since my last post, my AH was served with the order of protection for our kids and myself, and he should be served with the divorce papers today. He has not attempted to contact me which has been a relief in a way. He has been transferring all of his craziness to my dad now which makes me feel horrible. My dad is keeping the lines of communication open with him in the hopes that he will finally decide to get help. Judging from his actions so far, I don't have high hopes of that.
After the protection order was served, he had a policeman escort him to the house. where he proceeded to trash the place and break things. The cop did nothing. Now he is posting brutal things about me on social media about how much of a liar I am and a deadbeat mom for keeping him away from his kids. I guess I shouldn't expect any better from him. But after 20 years together, he sure knows how to hurt me. I'm trying to stay positive and hope that the people who truly know me won't believe the lies. Just really hurtful, and I'm so struggling right now.
stay strong. do not engage and do not give his BS on social media a second thought. you need to look only to his ACTIONS....trashing the house and now trashing you. DO NOT ENGAGE. it would be best for your father to cease contact as well.....
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Well, a characteristic of sick person is a lack of restraint and self control. Let him post away and allow people to see him for what he is.
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I don't know that I agree with what others say about no contact- when I had a restraining order against my STBXH my dad blocked all of his emails. My mom didn't, and he sent her some crazy rants. But he hated my dad with a passion- I'm sure those emails would have proven really valuable in court (had I not been so idiotic as to drop my restraining order and come back for more abuse following his empty promises).
Definitely- do not engage!
Best wishes
Definitely- do not engage!
Best wishes
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I don't know that I agree with what others say about no contact- when I had a restraining order against my STBXH my dad blocked all of his emails. My mom didn't, and he sent her some crazy rants. But he hated my dad with a passion- I'm sure those emails would have proven really valuable in court (had I not been so idiotic as to drop my restraining order and come back for more abuse following his empty promises).
Definitely- do not engage!
Best wishes
Definitely- do not engage!
Best wishes
They get so angry about orders of protection!
I am right there with you! My XAH has contested the order I have. We have to go to a hearing on Tuesday to try and make it stick. Child services is involved and it is a complete mess. He has slandered me all over social media and is calling me every name in the book.
Stay strong and please keep coming back. This place has been such a great support for me.
I agree with the others. Do not engage.
I am right there with you! My XAH has contested the order I have. We have to go to a hearing on Tuesday to try and make it stick. Child services is involved and it is a complete mess. He has slandered me all over social media and is calling me every name in the book.
Stay strong and please keep coming back. This place has been such a great support for me.
I agree with the others. Do not engage.
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They get so angry about orders of protection!
I am right there with you! My XAH has contested the order I have. We have to go to a hearing on Tuesday to try and make it stick. Child services is involved and it is a complete mess. He has slandered me all over social media and is calling me every name in the book.
Stay strong and please keep coming back. This place has been such a great support for me.
I agree with the others. Do not engage.
I am right there with you! My XAH has contested the order I have. We have to go to a hearing on Tuesday to try and make it stick. Child services is involved and it is a complete mess. He has slandered me all over social media and is calling me every name in the book.
Stay strong and please keep coming back. This place has been such a great support for me.
I agree with the others. Do not engage.
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