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Old 02-14-2016, 09:39 PM
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Introduction and accountability...

Hello,

Today is the end of day 7 for me. It's been nearly 3 years going this long without drinking.

Had about 5 days here and there and eventually, (since October), became an everyday drinker. Panic attacks made me believe alcohol was my medication. Soon realized it only exacerbated symptoms.

Anyway, looking forward to day 8 and will use this as a "tool". I'm finding myself anxious about drinking in the future although I have no desire to do so and feel very solid and convicted about never drinking again.

Is this crazy fatigue normal? Or the anxiety about the future? I'm guessing this is where one day at a time comes into play?

Thanks for reading.
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CongratulatIons on a week 360 - that's a tremendous accomplishment in early recovery. I don't know your full story (years drinking, amounts consumed, etc) but in general, yes.. fatigue is normal. Make sure to eat regularly and get some exercise. Try not to worry about the future. Just enjoy each day of sobriety.
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Yeah fatigue is pretty common. It will get better. Eat well, exercise, sleep...All those things are important, especially now

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Welcome 360 and congratulations on a week! The fatigue and anxiety sounds perfectly normal to me for a week sober.
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Welcome to the family. Early recovery is a time of ups and downs. But the longer you stay sober, the better you'll feel.
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Good morning day 8! Thank you all for the responses. I guess you could say I've been drinking for 14 years, minus 3 pregnancies, always stopped then.

I feel good this morning, have a free day at home. Plan on getting cleaning done, grocery store. But no drinking!
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Welcome to SR, and congratulations on one week!!! You will find lots of support here.
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Hello and welcome, congratulations on day 8!!
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Finishing up day 8! Got a lot done today, feel good. Little anxious over all the little sounds I hear (live in the middle of nowhere, by choice), maybe it's just I'm not used to paying attention to them?

Looking forward to day 9!!
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Day 9 and off to work! My significant other of ten years told me.... "Can I tell you something".... I was surprised, he then said," I'm so very proud of you for all of this, thank you. "

It felt good to hear that and I feel good this morning. Have a good day everyone!
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Welcome 360!
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Well, that's good support from your SO! Congratulations on Day 10 and I hope you continue to use SR as a tool to help you through recovery.
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Welcome to SR, 360, and congratulations on seven sober days.

Glad you found us; hope that the support you find here will help you on your sober journey.
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Productive day! Quick check in on my way to bed, waking up to double digits! Day 10 tomorrow!
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Originally Posted by 360startstoday View Post
Day 9 and off to work! My significant other of ten years told me.... "Can I tell you something".... I was surprised, he then said," I'm so very proud of you for all of this, thank you. "

It felt good to hear that and I feel good this morning. Have a good day everyone!
These moments make it worth it even more!!! I live it!

(Don't be afraid to tell him how much his words meant and to keep them.coming....we all need encouragement!)
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Congrats on double digits tomorrow!

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Old 02-17-2016, 05:48 AM
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Originally Posted by SportsFan15 View Post
These moments make it worth it even more!!! I live it!

(Don't be afraid to tell him how much his words meant and to keep them.coming....we all need encouragement!)
Thank you, he made another comment last night, it is very helpful.

Today is day 10, just hoping for a a good productive day!
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