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Old 12-07-2015, 11:41 AM
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55 years is enough

just joined,this is my first post and just wanted to say, after 55 years of drinking way to much,its time,no more, i am done, i will be sober the rest of my life, i really support all of you,lets do this....
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Old 12-07-2015, 11:45 AM
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Welcome Grizzly - plenty of us getting sober later in life. I too was sick and tired of being sick and tired. For me, it was a great starting point to willingness. With the help of SR and a program of recovery I am sober today! I'll deal with tomorrow when it gets here......

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Old 12-07-2015, 11:54 AM
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Welcome to the Forum Grizzly!!
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Old 12-07-2015, 11:55 AM
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Old 12-07-2015, 12:32 PM
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Old 12-07-2015, 12:34 PM
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Welcome Grizzly,

Good luck and best wishes for your journey.

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Old 12-07-2015, 12:35 PM
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Welcome!

You will find great support here. We are here 24/7/365. Keep reading and keep posting. We got this!
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Old 12-07-2015, 12:40 PM
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Welcome aboard Grizzly.....Stick around..it pays!!
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Old 12-07-2015, 01:17 PM
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Hi Grizzly glad you found us.
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Old 12-07-2015, 02:29 PM
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Thanks Griz

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I just joined as well. I'm sober 3 1/2 yrs . after 45 yrs of drinking off and on and nearly every weekend for the last 30 yrs.
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Old 12-07-2015, 02:32 PM
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Welcome, Grizzly, to SR and congratulations on your great decision to lead a sober life.
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Old 12-07-2015, 04:26 PM
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It is never too late! Welcome to the family.
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Old 12-07-2015, 04:35 PM
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Welcome, you've come to the right place
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Old 12-07-2015, 04:35 PM
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Welcome to the family. I'm glad you joined us. There's lots of support and good ideas here. Read and post often.
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Old 12-07-2015, 04:39 PM
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I just joined also...well, a few days ago...good for you to see the light..
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Old 12-07-2015, 04:43 PM
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Grizzly18, goin on 6 years sober after a 40+ year career as a drunk, I know what you are talkin about. You can do it rootin for ya.
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Old 12-08-2015, 09:26 AM
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Amen!!

In no time at all you're going to look back and shake your head in disbelief. You're going to wonder why you didn't stop earlier.

I think I saw that you're a salesman? I sell life insurance D2D. It was a struggle at first trying to sell while sober. I lost sales the first couple weeks because I was moody and too focused on myself.

The only suggestions I have:
- Don't have high expectations. Try to set easily attainable goals. Like lay me down goals.

- Plan on a few breaks during the day where you can have a little time for yourself. Even 10min. Use that time to pump yourself up. Definitely try to center yourself after a blown sale or when your frustrated.

- eat really good. Fruits, veggies, lean protein, water. 5 small meals is better for stabilizing moods as that levels out glucose.

- buy dark chocolate. Something with 85% coca or better. It's a HUGE mood lifter. Read up on dark chocolate and alcohol withdrawals. You'd be surprised at how well it helps.

- drop the coffee. Switch to green tea if you need caffeine. Green tea has theanine in it that helps with mood.

Have faith that the emotions you may experience are short term. Have faith that a sober path is going to lead you to a MUCH more fruitful life than staying on a drunk path. Remind yourself that if you can push through this tough time, you are going to make up lost productivity and then some!!

Congrats for making the decision! You will not regret your choice!!
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