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Old 08-22-2015, 08:38 AM
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My poor cousin . . .

. . . died from alcoholism this week. She was 40 and had a 6 year old daughter. She had been dry for a while then fell off - alcohol poisoning I should think. There will be a post-mortem so we shall see.

She was - in my view - unlikely to recover as she would not / could not admit despite losing everything that drinking was her problem.

A part of me is glad that her little one is young enough not to be scarred by this as she would have been in a few years.

Her mum & brother found her in bed.

Could have been me, could have been any of us.

Stupid, stupid tragedy. Thank god I'm sober.
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Old 08-22-2015, 08:40 AM
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The worst of the worst of alcoholism stories . . . .

I am so very sorry.
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Old 08-22-2015, 08:44 AM
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That's so sad, I'm sorry for the loss.
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So sorry to hear your news, sobermax.
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Old 08-22-2015, 09:01 AM
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Yes, could have been any of us..........

Sorry for your pain and the grief of all loved ones.

May all find peace
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I'm so sorry.
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Old 08-22-2015, 09:12 AM
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sobermax , What a tragedy - Very sorry for your loss. That Beast doesn't care who it takes
It took out 2 of my close friends these past 2 years , younger than me & I'm 55 . I managed to save myself .
To all the ones still struggling - Please think of your Health - before the Alcohol !!
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But for the grace of God...I'm sorry, Sobermax.

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Old 08-22-2015, 09:24 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss, Sobermax.
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Old 08-22-2015, 09:30 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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Old 08-22-2015, 09:31 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Old 08-22-2015, 11:02 AM
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Very sorry for your loss Sobermax!!
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Old 08-22-2015, 11:06 AM
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That is tragic. 40 is so young. I'm sorry for your loss and happy that you are sober.
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Old 08-22-2015, 11:13 AM
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Sadly, as I age, I see more and more of this.
I'm sorry that she couldn't recognize the real issue in her life.
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Old 08-22-2015, 11:26 AM
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I'm very sorry for your loss.
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Old 08-22-2015, 11:53 AM
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I lost my cousin recently I am so sorry here if you ever want to talk
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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Old 08-22-2015, 12:12 PM
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I'm so sorry.
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I'm very sorry, Sobermax.
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Old 08-22-2015, 12:26 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss, Sobermax. This disease is tough.
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