Divorce is final.
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Divorce is final.
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I just wanted to update on a divorce/parenting agreement with the exah. I filed Oct. 2012 and after many many court dates and 4 days of trial ex has continuation of supervised visits and and ex will have to prove to an ex-judge/mediatior that he is sober (with quantitative evidence) when he is sober and wants unsupervised time with daughter. It has been a long, expensive journey and am so relieved it is all over. I am writing this for those who are contemplating leaving and worried how you will keep your children safe. My ex has money (hired bulldog atty) and his dad is an attorney, I thought that a parenting agreement with supervised visitation was a long shot, but the right thing to do. It is the right thing to do with an active alcoholic/addict and the courts do want to keep children safe. I thank God that I have come out on the other side of this mess and continued to work on myself in the process. I still have work to do and am grateful to be able to spend the time and energy that I spent in litigation living my life. Thank you to all who post regularly, there is so much wisdom and insight here.
I just wanted to update on a divorce/parenting agreement with the exah. I filed Oct. 2012 and after many many court dates and 4 days of trial ex has continuation of supervised visits and and ex will have to prove to an ex-judge/mediatior that he is sober (with quantitative evidence) when he is sober and wants unsupervised time with daughter. It has been a long, expensive journey and am so relieved it is all over. I am writing this for those who are contemplating leaving and worried how you will keep your children safe. My ex has money (hired bulldog atty) and his dad is an attorney, I thought that a parenting agreement with supervised visitation was a long shot, but the right thing to do. It is the right thing to do with an active alcoholic/addict and the courts do want to keep children safe. I thank God that I have come out on the other side of this mess and continued to work on myself in the process. I still have work to do and am grateful to be able to spend the time and energy that I spent in litigation living my life. Thank you to all who post regularly, there is so much wisdom and insight here.
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Good for you. You stayed the path and followed through. It's amazing how good you feel inside and that you will have peace again in your life. Congratulations, u r an inspiration to all the people on this forum that you can forge ahead and go after what you want, and get it!!!! Hugs my friend, be proud of what u have accomplished!!!
Good for you. You stayed the path and followed through. It's amazing how good you feel inside and that you will have peace again in your life. Congratulations, u r an inspiration to all the people on this forum that you can forge ahead and go after what you want, and get it!!!! Hugs my friend, be proud of what u have accomplished!!!
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