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Old 07-10-2015, 05:18 AM
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I bought the book off Amazon and got it yesterday. I was awake at 2am tossing and turning, and started reading it until I finished around 5am. Everything she said in the book was me to a tee, except I am divorced with 2 kids.


I found myself crying at the end, because I'm just beginning the journey and there seems to be so much pain, loneliness and hard work ahead to get to a happier place. It gave me hope though and that's what I need right now. I would highly recommend the book.
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Old 07-10-2015, 05:24 AM
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I'm just beginning the journey and there seems to be so much pain, loneliness and hard work ahead to get to a happier place.
The reward at journey's end is worth the effort.
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It's an absolutely fabulous book - I can't say enough about - highly recommend it. I too finished it in 1 day.

I met Sarah at a book signing in Dallas. She's absolutely delightful.
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I read it, too, in one day. Loved it!!
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Originally Posted by lilbean View Post
I found myself crying at the end, because I'm just beginning the journey and there seems to be so much pain, loneliness and hard work ahead to get to a happier place. It gave me hope though and that's what I need right now. I would highly recommend the book.
Thanks for sharing, I'll definitely check it out. I am glad that it gave you hope, because the hard work is really worth it to get to sobriety.
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Thank you for sharing. This journey is worth it. I'm 148 days in and I'm beginning to see just how blinded I was by alcohol. Sober boots was a good book also!
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Have you read "Drinking a Love Story" by Caroline Knapp. That book was as good as gold to me when I stopped drinking. I will have to read Blackout.
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This book was just as good as Knapp's. She is a wonderful writer. Devoured this book in two days.
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I haven't read the book but I can say that my first year in sobriety was tough in a lot of ways but it wasn't about pain and loneliness.

Hard work to be sure.

And SO worth it!!

I'll get this book, sounds like a must-read.
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The reward at journey's end is worth the effort.
Practice living in the moment. It's the journey that's reward enough not the destination.
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Nice to meet you glad the book gave you so much
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Just got the book, I look forward to reading another person journey.
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I just finished the book last night. The part that really got me thinking to me was when she discovered in the end that "alcohol was not a cure for pain; it was merely a postponement". That statement really put things into perspective for me.
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I downloaded it off of Audible and listened to it while I was at work for the past two days. The book struck me to the core. The part that really struck a chord with me was as drinkers we want to hit the brick wall and go through it unscathed. I hit that brick wall. I'm hurting. I realized I needed to change.

I was shocked at how much I felt a connection to the arrested development of emotions. I see that in myself. I need to feel the range of feelings in myself rather than masking it with alcohol.

To be honest, I identified with a lot of what she said in the book. Some of the storylines may be different, but I really felt we shared some of the same experiences with alcohol and shrugging it off. Well, it's time not to shrug it off anymore.
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Old 07-10-2015, 10:56 PM
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I'm reading Blackout now. It's a good book, but Drinking: A Love Story is my favorite. I loved Carolyn Knapp's writing style. So sad that she died so young. She beat the drink, but not the cigarette.
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Thanks lilbean - I have it ordered. Was wondering about it - she got excellent reviews.
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Old 07-11-2015, 03:18 PM
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Yeah it's a great book.....I'm reading it for the second time.
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Old 07-11-2015, 04:40 PM
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I had this book tagged to read but will bump it up as "next" on my need to read list...thank you for the share!
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Old 07-11-2015, 05:11 PM
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I'm going to pick it up, too- thanks for the tip!!! I love memoirs about recovery.

Knapp's book was great, I agree. My favorite and what resonated so much with me was "Lit" by Mary Karr. I've probably read it 4 times (see my signature quote)!
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Thanks for the book recommendation, lilbean. This afternoon I had a few spare hours and started to read the first chapters. Boy did it bring back a bunch of memories stuffed in there. Mostly at this point I am reminded of the now undeniable heart ache for all the friendships (or potential friendships) burned through while on my delusional winning spree. Today is a new day.

Next up will be Mary Karr's book. Thanks for that Dharma, as well. I also agree with the positive reviews of Caroline Knapp's book which I read well before I made the commitment to stop the drink. Right after her book, I read her friend's...both brought quite a few tears. It is all good.
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