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I am an alcoholic, even typing that seems like a relief to me... I intend to do day 1 tomorrow as it is making my life a misery. From anxiety to just generally feeling like rubbish. I drink 7 or 8 strong ciders (8%) most days. I think I am stopping before i have done any real damage, but you never know do ya?
Just saying hi and i will be lurking a bit trying to get a feel for the place whilst I prepare to say goodbye to my "friend" who has nearly ruined my life, old Mr Booze himself.
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Old 06-25-2015, 06:36 AM
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I intend to do day 1 tomorrow as it is making my life a misery.
I spent several years planning to quit "tomorrow" but didn't succeed until I changed tomorrow to "Today!"

There's no better time to quit than now.
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Old 06-25-2015, 06:42 AM
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its true, tipped my drink away, but cant call it day 1 until tomorrow as i had half of it, I really need to acoomplish this this time
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Old 06-25-2015, 06:44 AM
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... what carl said ... yeah for me 2 ...

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I found it amazing how often I planned to have day1 start tomorrow . Playing stupid mind games with myself. Glad to see you here. Praying for good results as you start this journey today!
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Old 06-25-2015, 10:02 AM
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failed today, big fail i know...
got a very bad itchy skin though and terrified its my liver but its just heat rash or shingles i think, no pain in my lower right side, which is a blessing, ive got everything prepared for tomorrow, bottle water, ready meals and lots of dvds to watch... this is just my way of dealing with it
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Old 06-25-2015, 01:08 PM
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Originally Posted by justsaynonono View Post
its true, tipped my drink away, but cant call it day 1 until tomorrow as i had half of it, I really need to acoomplish this this time
They're your days - not mine, his or hers - their yours and you can count them however you wish!!!

Glad you're posting, welcome and thanks for the thread.

Day one - the day I tossed it away and stopped = good for you
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Welcome to SR justsaynonono

if you're concerned about damage, only a Dr can really set your mind at ease.

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Old 06-25-2015, 06:16 PM
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Your moniker is justsaynonono, that's probably going to be the only way to get that day 1 behind you and on to day 2 and then 3 etc...Very few will tell you its easy, its not. You should be proud of yourself for recognizing there is an issue and doing something about it. Also, all the smart people here can offer a ton of great advice and suggestions. If you're unable to do it on your own, there are many other options available. And that is very helpful to know. People will be along to let you know what those options are and how to go about taking advantage of them.
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Great to meet you justsaynonono. I felt less anxious about quitting when I found SR. I was tired of hiding and pretending - here, I could be myself and everyone understood. You're going to do this. It'll feel good to be free.
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Welcome to this site justsaynonono. Stick close by and keep in close touch. The people here have a way of "rubbing off" off on you. Thats a good thing.

Glad you're here.

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Welcome to SR. Read and post here often. It has been a tremendous help for me. You can do it!
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Old 06-27-2015, 07:36 AM
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full 48 hours since last drinky poo
feel great already, not gonna get complacent yet though, this is very early days thanks for lovely messages of support.
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Old 06-27-2015, 08:02 AM
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Congrats on day 2, justsaynonono! Remember you don't have to take that first drink no matter what. And as long as you don't take the first, you can't take the second or third or tenth. Keep on keeping on!
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Old 06-27-2015, 08:13 AM
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Nice job! 48 hours is awesome. That first two weeks was the hardest, but hang in there and check in on here often! We're all here for you.
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