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Old 06-07-2015, 07:28 AM
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What do you all think (today) is one of the best things about sobriety? For me it's positivity. I used to live my life so negatively. That has completely changed 100 percent. Positively is the essence of life!
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I feel at peace with who I am.
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Waking up feeling rested and good just never gets old for me!!
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The contentment. The positivity is huge too. I have a hard time being around negative people now. My parents tend to be glass half empty kind of people and I have had to cut down on time spent with them for now.
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Old 06-07-2015, 07:54 AM
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What do you all think (today) is one of the best things about sobriety?
When I was drinking it seemed there was always a big battle going on. Fighting with people, places and things.

Today I can say, the war is over and has been for many years now.

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Old 06-07-2015, 08:15 AM
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Direction and action. I love that I am actively working on improving my life. Not just wishing it would get better.
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Old 06-07-2015, 08:17 AM
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Great post! It all starts by changing the internal conversations from negative statements to positive ones.
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Old 06-07-2015, 08:24 AM
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Getting time to do things I like with the people I love... Earlier the whole thing was about planning to sneak time to get the bottle and then to drink and then to hide it. Now I feel "free".
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Old 06-07-2015, 08:42 AM
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The feeling of peace and self worth.
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Old 06-07-2015, 09:35 AM
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Direction and action. I love that I am actively working on improving my life. Not just wishing it would get better.
You bet Axiom. No amount of wishing, prayers, crossed-fingers, etc. will work - it takes action.

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Old 06-07-2015, 09:58 AM
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Freedom.

I am not shackled to anything any longer. Alcohol was the first to go. The 12 steps has, over time, granted me freedom from pretty much all other things that used to have power over me... cigarettes, sex, co-dependency, obsessive thinking, video games, etc. Being free is a great feeling.
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Not having to hide anything - real freedom
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Old 06-07-2015, 02:58 PM
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I'm still early in, but lots of positives so far I can think of.

- I bounce right out of bed without issue, versus thinking, "is it really worth it?"

- I enjoy being able to walk the streets being calm and content in my own skin, versus rushing constantly wondering, "I wonder how drunk I look?"

- My black garbage bag of empties is now basically all water bottles.

- My house is always clean, and yard always taken care of.

- My mouth no longer tastes like a sewer.

I'll stop there...
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Me too SW

For me, peace

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