This feels strange
This feels strange
Some of you here know my story.
I have been sober on and off for long periods of time. My parents live in a very rural area and I work in the city during the week and I live with my Grandmother and three of my aunts until I can get a better paid job and I will look for a place of my own.
Two days ago I was informed that they are all going on holiday this Sunday for a week. To say I was surprised is an understatement. The last time I was left alone last summer was very hard for me and I went off the rails. I am reminded of that scene from Friends where Joey moves out of Chandlers place and says he was looking forward to being alone because he would have time to think. He said something like "it turns out that I don't have as many thoughts as you would think".
I said to my Grandmother "what will I do?" She said "mind your job, feed yourself properly, lock the door when you go to bed and don't lose your keys. Do you want me to cook some vegetables and leave them in the freezer for you?" Grandma thinks I'm going to starve!
I had a chat with my dad and my therapist. They feel I am ready for this and the fact that I am trusted again makes my heart sing! I will go to work every day, cook myself nutritious meals, exercise and read my books, meet my friends for coffee, check in on here...
The world is bright and I am ready for it. We all deserve a second chance.
I have been sober on and off for long periods of time. My parents live in a very rural area and I work in the city during the week and I live with my Grandmother and three of my aunts until I can get a better paid job and I will look for a place of my own.
Two days ago I was informed that they are all going on holiday this Sunday for a week. To say I was surprised is an understatement. The last time I was left alone last summer was very hard for me and I went off the rails. I am reminded of that scene from Friends where Joey moves out of Chandlers place and says he was looking forward to being alone because he would have time to think. He said something like "it turns out that I don't have as many thoughts as you would think".
I said to my Grandmother "what will I do?" She said "mind your job, feed yourself properly, lock the door when you go to bed and don't lose your keys. Do you want me to cook some vegetables and leave them in the freezer for you?" Grandma thinks I'm going to starve!
I had a chat with my dad and my therapist. They feel I am ready for this and the fact that I am trusted again makes my heart sing! I will go to work every day, cook myself nutritious meals, exercise and read my books, meet my friends for coffee, check in on here...
The world is bright and I am ready for it. We all deserve a second chance.
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Join Date: May 2015
Location: Washington dc
Posts: 17
Sounds like a great plan - keep positive and stick to the plan. Sounds like you have it all under control. Maybe youve taken comfort in having your family nearby but at the end of the day, the restraint has always and will continue to be yours. Stay strong! Keep it up.
I had a chat with my dad and my therapist. They feel I am ready for this and the fact that I am trusted again makes my heart sing! I will go to work every day, cook myself nutritious meals, exercise and read my books, meet my friends for coffee, check in on here...
The world is bright and I am ready for it. We all deserve a second chance.
The world is bright and I am ready for it. We all deserve a second chance.
But don't forget the person who really matters here is you. Looking after yourself, going to work, not drinking are all things you need to do for you not to prove yourself to anyone else.
This might be a good time -- the week they are away I mean -- to think about it how things are with you looking after yourself and being accountable only to yourself. Perhaps this is the summer to take a room in a share house and live on your terms? I think you're ready.
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Join Date: May 2015
Location: NYC
Posts: 31
Yes!!! Everyone gets a second chance! Some people even get more! Stay busy and realize that there are so many joys in life besides alcohol! Life doesn't have to be hard or bad, it can be good!! Make yourself a plan and a list of things you can do in case you get bored.
Ok now I'm a bit scared.
I went upstairs to take a shower and someone was knocking on the front door at almost 10pm at night.
It's not drinking I'm afraid of...It's a murderer.
So much for peaceful alone time...
I went upstairs to take a shower and someone was knocking on the front door at almost 10pm at night.
It's not drinking I'm afraid of...It's a murderer.
So much for peaceful alone time...
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