TerpGal

I have decided I am no longer angry at MIL. That anger flamed out during my inpatient stay at the hospital. I don't want to use the "f" word (forgiveness) because it's way too religiously charged, but I can let go of the anger. I can have a relationship with her, it just won't be the same. It will be cordial, superficial at best because she can't be entrusted with anything more. But the great thing is that *I* get to decide what the relationship will look like. I am just done with SIL. I'm not angry with her. I nothing her. RAH otoh, is earning my trust back. It's tenous but I don't want to divorce him anymore. We really need to work on our communication as we're both huge codies. We will return to marriage counselling but not now. I have my own head to figure out.