feeling down and ready for change
feeling down and ready for change
Hi, I have a binge drinking problem and I am realizing now that I cannot play this dangerous game any longer. When I drink, I drink to black out which actually doesn't take much and have found myself in some potentially dangerous situations.
Last night I was in Vegas with my friends and somehow got separated from them on the strip. I was in a blackout for 3 hours. I came to in a hotel hallway where I was knocking ona door trying to get in. I have no idea what happened in those 3 hours and it scares me to death. I don't know how I got to that hotel but I think I was confused and just thought it was mine. I can't believe I was even able to walk.
I feel so terrible right now but I can be thankful that I didn't get robbed or arrested. I'm trying not to beat myself up for this but I'm freaked out that I put myself in such a vulnerable situation. All I can think is that I was wandering around trying to find my hotel, but for 2 or 3 hours? This is so scary.
I now know that I need to do everything possible to make sure this will never happen again. I'm thankful that this situation did not end up worse than it was. This needs to be my bottom. At this point I am willing to go to aa if that's what i need to do to stay sober long term.
Have any of you had terrible experiences with a blackout? Honestly, that's the scariest feeling I've ever had. To know that I was upright and walking around with no recollection is insane. Anything could have happened to me and I'm thankful that i stayed safe.
This will never ever happen again. I know that it only gets worse.
Thank you for listening to me.
Last night I was in Vegas with my friends and somehow got separated from them on the strip. I was in a blackout for 3 hours. I came to in a hotel hallway where I was knocking ona door trying to get in. I have no idea what happened in those 3 hours and it scares me to death. I don't know how I got to that hotel but I think I was confused and just thought it was mine. I can't believe I was even able to walk.
I feel so terrible right now but I can be thankful that I didn't get robbed or arrested. I'm trying not to beat myself up for this but I'm freaked out that I put myself in such a vulnerable situation. All I can think is that I was wandering around trying to find my hotel, but for 2 or 3 hours? This is so scary.
I now know that I need to do everything possible to make sure this will never happen again. I'm thankful that this situation did not end up worse than it was. This needs to be my bottom. At this point I am willing to go to aa if that's what i need to do to stay sober long term.
Have any of you had terrible experiences with a blackout? Honestly, that's the scariest feeling I've ever had. To know that I was upright and walking around with no recollection is insane. Anything could have happened to me and I'm thankful that i stayed safe.
This will never ever happen again. I know that it only gets worse.
Thank you for listening to me.
Glad your here 1983 im so glad i dont have blackouts no more they were so horrible
Have you got a sober plan ? http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...at-we-did.html
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-recovery.html
Have you got a sober plan ? http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...at-we-did.html
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-recovery.html
That's a great link. I need a plan, I don't really have one. I'm actually flying back home right now so when I get home I'm going to make one.
I've tried for so long to deny that I have a problem. I rationalize to myself that because I don't drink everyday, it's OK. I can't deal with this merry go round in my head any longer though. I know I need to quit for good.
I can go so long without drinking but it's so hard to quit completely. I feel like my life is going down a terrible path and I need to make a plan so I don't go further.
I've tried for so long to deny that I have a problem. I rationalize to myself that because I don't drink everyday, it's OK. I can't deal with this merry go round in my head any longer though. I know I need to quit for good.
I can go so long without drinking but it's so hard to quit completely. I feel like my life is going down a terrible path and I need to make a plan so I don't go further.
It's so good to meet you 1983ritag. I'm really glad you've joined us for some help and support. You're among people who know what you're going through - you never have to feel alone. I'm glad nothing bad happened while you were in a black out. Welcome to SR!
I had blackouts too at the end of my drinking days and I agree they are the scariest thing ever. It still scares me when I think that there are hours of my life when I will never know what I did and what happened.
I'm glad you have decided to stop drinking.
I'm glad you have decided to stop drinking.
I feel scared and alone right now but I know there's tons of support waiting for me when I need it. I also know that with time, this feeling will pass.Thank you guys so much for the support. I'm not good about reaching out but I know that will be key to staying sober.
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Wow 1983, that's very scary! I know how you feel though. I had a black out several years ago and I woke up in a police car. I had gotten arrested for driving drunk & didn't know it until I came out of the black out.
Another time I woke up in the emergency room with no recollection of why I was there. It turns out I blacked out and went to some party with a bunch of strangers. They kicked me out of their apartment and left me for dead in the snow. If their neighbors hadn't come home when they did, I would most likely be dead.
Sadly, I have other stories of times I literally had to be a "detective" and look at receipts, text messages, phone calls I made etc. to figure out what I did that night. One of the things that I worried about most was being sexually assaulted. I don't "think" that happened to me, but the fact that I didn't know for sure...was terrifying!
I never ever want to experience a blackout ever again. I think my luck has run out! I'm so glad you want to stop. It WILL get worse. It's a dead end street. The end is death, jail or institutions. I can tell by your post that you are ready for a change! AA is awesome and you will get lots if support there AND from this website.
Another time I woke up in the emergency room with no recollection of why I was there. It turns out I blacked out and went to some party with a bunch of strangers. They kicked me out of their apartment and left me for dead in the snow. If their neighbors hadn't come home when they did, I would most likely be dead.
Sadly, I have other stories of times I literally had to be a "detective" and look at receipts, text messages, phone calls I made etc. to figure out what I did that night. One of the things that I worried about most was being sexually assaulted. I don't "think" that happened to me, but the fact that I didn't know for sure...was terrifying!
I never ever want to experience a blackout ever again. I think my luck has run out! I'm so glad you want to stop. It WILL get worse. It's a dead end street. The end is death, jail or institutions. I can tell by your post that you are ready for a change! AA is awesome and you will get lots if support there AND from this website.
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That's a great link. I need a plan, I don't really have one. I'm actually flying back home right now so when I get home I'm going to make one. I've tried for so long to deny that I have a problem. I rationalize to myself that because I don't drink everyday, it's OK. I can't deal with this merry go round in my head any longer though. I know I need to quit for good. I can go so long without drinking but it's so hard to quit completely. I feel like my life is going down a terrible path and I need to make a plan so I don't go further.
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It's ok...you have a new plan now. Don't look at the past...you can't change it...just learn from it. Your new life sober will be so much better! :-) Rooting for you!!!
1983,
Write down now what you are feeling, explain the details of your last night. You will need to remind yourself of how bad it was or could get if you continue to drink. My journals have been very useful. At some point, all of us alcoholics tend to forget and try to convince ourselves that we can drink normally after we get some sober time under our belts.
Write down now what you are feeling, explain the details of your last night. You will need to remind yourself of how bad it was or could get if you continue to drink. My journals have been very useful. At some point, all of us alcoholics tend to forget and try to convince ourselves that we can drink normally after we get some sober time under our belts.
I've got a plan now, I'm going to start my RR book again when I get home this evening. A few years ago I was having a lot of problems with alcohol and coke and decided to call it quits. I tried aa but it never really stuck with me. I found RR helped the most so I'm going to get serious with that.
After my experience this weekend I don't ever ever want to drink again. I know that it's likely I'll forget those feelings eventually so I'm going to do everything to remind myself of the reasons I can't drink.
What a horrible experience and I'm so thankful and lucky that it turned out as well as it did. I put myself in a really terrible situation and I realize that things could've ended much worse.
I'm done trying to find out if I can drink again like a non addict. I give up.
After my experience this weekend I don't ever ever want to drink again. I know that it's likely I'll forget those feelings eventually so I'm going to do everything to remind myself of the reasons I can't drink.
What a horrible experience and I'm so thankful and lucky that it turned out as well as it did. I put myself in a really terrible situation and I realize that things could've ended much worse.
I'm done trying to find out if I can drink again like a non addict. I give up.
All you just have to remember is you don't drink. And won't. Ever.
Good luck.
Hi ritag,
Seriously, I understand that heart ache, pit in the stomach feeling. Thanks for the reminder. One cold night a few years ago I bounced around a major metropolitan downtown area without my wallet, coat or phone while in a blackout. When I drink I have a tendency to run and I had run out of the place where the few people who knew me could help. How I returned to my hotel room is a piecemeal mystery. Scary stuff.
You are not alone. Luck does run out and it is best that we quit while we are ahead. It is 11 months sober for me and honestly, thinking of that blackout still chills my blood but I find solice in knowing that I know I cannot and will not ever put myself in that position again. Yay, no alcohol!
Glad you made safely home as well.
Seriously, I understand that heart ache, pit in the stomach feeling. Thanks for the reminder. One cold night a few years ago I bounced around a major metropolitan downtown area without my wallet, coat or phone while in a blackout. When I drink I have a tendency to run and I had run out of the place where the few people who knew me could help. How I returned to my hotel room is a piecemeal mystery. Scary stuff.
You are not alone. Luck does run out and it is best that we quit while we are ahead. It is 11 months sober for me and honestly, thinking of that blackout still chills my blood but I find solice in knowing that I know I cannot and will not ever put myself in that position again. Yay, no alcohol!
Glad you made safely home as well.
Thanks everyone, I really appreciate the support. Good job on your 11 months Verte!
I remember what an accomplishment that is and how much better my life was the last time I was sober that long.
It's really crazy how my mind got the best of me and I'd convinced myself that maybe I could handle drinking again.
Part of me wishes I'd never opened that door again but I guess it was something I had to do. I won't let this consume anymore of my life.
I remember what an accomplishment that is and how much better my life was the last time I was sober that long.
It's really crazy how my mind got the best of me and I'd convinced myself that maybe I could handle drinking again.
Part of me wishes I'd never opened that door again but I guess it was something I had to do. I won't let this consume anymore of my life.
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