Using alcohol to soothe emotional pain
Using alcohol to soothe emotional pain
So after a rough few days I have realized I drank a lot to attempt to soothe emotional pain and loneliness. However this use only intensifies negative emotions and experiences. Tonight I am nearing six months sober and I think I have a clearer and more rational mind that enables me to think through negative feelings. It hurts to just grin and bear reality, but it is far more painful to add problems caused from drinking on top of whatever bad is happening. This is why even though I am going through a bad experience right now I don't have to turn to alcohol to self medicate. Tonight I accept responsibility for the bad decisions I have made and there is nothing I can do but look at the experience and try to make better decisions in the future. Instead of getting drunk and hurting myself I am choosing to grow up and face the music.
Any one have thoughts about using alcohol to deal with fear, loneliness, and emotional pain?
Any one have thoughts about using alcohol to deal with fear, loneliness, and emotional pain?
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Yes, absolutely.
Alcohol was my coping mechanism for all emotions. Yes, even the good ones. Happy, get plastered to celebrate, sad, get hammered to cope.
All my adult life dealing with booze left my emotionally under developed.
Alcohol was my coping mechanism for all emotions. Yes, even the good ones. Happy, get plastered to celebrate, sad, get hammered to cope.
All my adult life dealing with booze left my emotionally under developed.
Absolutely, I self-medicated to deal with anxiety and depression. I was not properly diagnosed and treated for way too long and turned to alcohol in a desperate move. And, of course, it makes things worse and we still have to deal with the stuff when we stop drinking.
Congratulations on 6 months sober!
Congratulations on 6 months sober!
I read something the other day and it went something like, 'when we are little we learn to dress and help heal a physical cut or break but very rarely do we know how to heal an emotion or mental cut or break...
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Yep, could have written your post myself. There's no reverse on my sobriety ride though, so I'm gonna have to face some things I tried to drown in beer. I will say that I am listening to the wisdom of those further down the road than I am by deferring some personal decisions that will affect my future and other's too. I've read that a year or so is needed for proper perspective.
Congratulations on how far you've come!
Congratulations on how far you've come!
Yes I made big decisions that I now regret. But I know my sobriety is more important than anything else in my life. I take things a day at a time and I am trying to figure out how to live. I have so much to work on that I just neglected by being a selfish drunk. Getting sober is humbling and I believe it has made me a better person. Life is too short to waste another moment of it drinking.
Yes I made big decisions that I now regret. But I know my sobriety is more important than anything else in my life. I take things a day at a time and I am trying to figure out how to live. I have so much to work on that I just neglected by being a selfish drunk. Getting sober is humbling and I believe it has made me a better person. Life is too short to waste another moment of it drinking.
I did this too; like others have said, alcohol "seemed" to work for my anxiety, until it didn't. I say seemed because it was only burying the feelings to a deep place in my mind where they built up and later whacked me upside the head!
Six months is a great accomplishment!
Six months is a great accomplishment!
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