Stayed sober
Stayed sober
Yesterday was rough. From 1 pm on I wanted a drink. I didnt though but the thought stayed with me all freaking day.
Then today I woke up. totally refreshed, not hung over, and had one of the better mornings I have had in a long while. Not tired (not tons of energy) and relatively happy.
Im glad I didnt drink. But now tonight I want to drink...
Then today I woke up. totally refreshed, not hung over, and had one of the better mornings I have had in a long while. Not tired (not tons of energy) and relatively happy.
Im glad I didnt drink. But now tonight I want to drink...
I totally hear what you are saying. But my mind is thinking I can deal with whatever happens, you should drink...
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Hi Jryan, good on you for not having a drink mate. I recall how a couple of times throughout the last 10 years I actually managed to wake up on a Sunday morning without a hangover (they were few and far inbetween!), and how fresh and good it felt. Sadly, I never managed at the time to sustain it, and would inevitably wake up every Sunday morning for months afterwards feeling terrible and full of regret and remorse.
Try and remember that great feeling you had this morning, they'll only get better and easier as time goes on, and compare it to how bad and guilty you'll feel in the morning if you do drink.
I would say good luck but you don't need it mate, you did it last night, and you've got it in you to do it again.
Seb.
Try and remember that great feeling you had this morning, they'll only get better and easier as time goes on, and compare it to how bad and guilty you'll feel in the morning if you do drink.
I would say good luck but you don't need it mate, you did it last night, and you've got it in you to do it again.
Seb.
Good job for coming here to talk about it, jryan. As others have said, think it through - play the tape forward and to how you will feel tomorrow if you do drink - the beastly hangover, the regret, the embarrassment. Then think how great it will be to wake up in the morning, sober, hangover free - the pride and guilt-free mind.
You can do this; you did it last night; you can do it again.
P.S. - Everything that voice in your head (AV) tells you is a lie.
You can do this; you did it last night; you can do it again.
P.S. - Everything that voice in your head (AV) tells you is a lie.
Playing the tape forward:
What would I gain: a buzz, an escape from a work week that hasnt gone perfectly, stress about the sports league that I run... a nice feeling of euphoria, and like I am getting away.
Negatives: Hangover, being tired, being agitated, being sad, going back on my word again about not drinking again, possibly disappointing my wife- kids wouldnt know- possible withdrawal in coming days, resetting my time. Longer term: cancers, live failure, kidney failure, stomach troubles, possibly drinking and driving and getting caught- never have but probably should have a few times- jail time, empty promises being broken, spending $2,000 a year on alcohol if I go back...
Yeah I know the negatives outweigh the positives by a lot, but the thought is still there.
What would I gain: a buzz, an escape from a work week that hasnt gone perfectly, stress about the sports league that I run... a nice feeling of euphoria, and like I am getting away.
Negatives: Hangover, being tired, being agitated, being sad, going back on my word again about not drinking again, possibly disappointing my wife- kids wouldnt know- possible withdrawal in coming days, resetting my time. Longer term: cancers, live failure, kidney failure, stomach troubles, possibly drinking and driving and getting caught- never have but probably should have a few times- jail time, empty promises being broken, spending $2,000 a year on alcohol if I go back...
Yeah I know the negatives outweigh the positives by a lot, but the thought is still there.
Thoughts are just that - thoughts. They don't control you; you have the control.
Have you read up on urge-surfing and mindfulness?
http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j...85970519,d.eXY
Have you read up on urge-surfing and mindfulness?
http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j...85970519,d.eXY
Thoughts are just that - thoughts. They don't control you; you have the control.
Have you read up on urge-surfing and mindfulness?
http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j...85970519,d.eXY
Have you read up on urge-surfing and mindfulness?
http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j...85970519,d.eXY
Today is day 12. I dont remember when my cravings stopped the last time around.
Yeah getting sober is hard because its so hard to say when that time is. I use to set a date then keep pushing it back and back and back until I said screw it I dont need to quit. Then I would have a huge night out drinking and pay for it heavily the next day or two. Hopefully I dont ever have to pay for that again.
Stay focused jryan!
Alcohol isn't escape. It is confinement. It imprisons you and blinds you to the truth, which is that you are strong enough to push forward without it.
Glad you are here and fighting it.
More power to you!
Alcohol isn't escape. It is confinement. It imprisons you and blinds you to the truth, which is that you are strong enough to push forward without it.
Glad you are here and fighting it.
More power to you!
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