Hi 1st time on here
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I'm so sorry Green, that is most likely a shock to you. My xabf quit many times and somehow I was always shocked when he stated again.
Hope you hang around and read as much as you can , the stickies at the top of the page are always awesome.
Post too, I'm sorry that you are hurting, he is doing what alcoholics do, they drink.
Hope you hang around and read as much as you can , the stickies at the top of the page are always awesome.
Post too, I'm sorry that you are hurting, he is doing what alcoholics do, they drink.
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Originally Posted by Green555 
I don't even know where to start I feel as if I could write a novel. My Husband is an alcoholic he has just done 28 days in rehab through Xmas and jan and I have found out he is drinking again.
What are your plans? Are you working on a program for you? Alanon?
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Join Date: Feb 2015
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I just try and get on with it .
It just seems harder this time both my parents have died through alcoholism .
I never wanted my kids to live with that
I've just discovered Al anon tonight I may see if there any local groups
It just seems harder this time both my parents have died through alcoholism .
I never wanted my kids to live with that
I've just discovered Al anon tonight I may see if there any local groups
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Join Date: Oct 2014
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Hi Green and welcome.
So sorry to hear about what you are going through. You will find people who listen and understand here and a wealth of knowledge and information.
Please keep coming back and talking if and when you feel comfortable to do so.
So sorry to hear about what you are going through. You will find people who listen and understand here and a wealth of knowledge and information.
Please keep coming back and talking if and when you feel comfortable to do so.
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Join Date: Aug 2014
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Welcome Green, I am sorry about your AH. If you read on the Alcoholism forum, you will see that it is quite common for A's to relapse. He's not the first and won't be the last. He did get the month in of sobriety. He does know what it feels like, so good for him.
You have to understand that he is probably more bummed about him relapsing then you are. So try and let him have is recovery and you have yours. Keep reading here, and posting. You need to get healthy also, as we become addicted to our addict.
Hugs my new friend, and keep coming back!!
You have to understand that he is probably more bummed about him relapsing then you are. So try and let him have is recovery and you have yours. Keep reading here, and posting. You need to get healthy also, as we become addicted to our addict.
Hugs my new friend, and keep coming back!!
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Yes, Its true when you realize that. So what you have to do is work your program because you are an addict to. Mind your business and take care of you. He will try and take care of his addiction.
Do some open AA meetings, alanon meetings go the the other forums here and educate yourself. As angry as you are at him, if you hit the other forums you might find a little compassion of what their addiction is all about.
Keep posting girl friend, you can only get healthier!!!
Do some open AA meetings, alanon meetings go the the other forums here and educate yourself. As angry as you are at him, if you hit the other forums you might find a little compassion of what their addiction is all about.
Keep posting girl friend, you can only get healthier!!!
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