The divorce is final!

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Old 02-13-2015, 07:40 PM
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The divorce is final!

I called the courthouse, and they were finally able to give me the good news. So thankful that it has come to an end. I am still sharing parenting responsibilities wit XAH, but at least I can look forward. I might even start to feel and look like a "normie" at some point (with super sensitive antennae).
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Yay Yurt!!! Congrats on your new life!

May many good things come your way!

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Congratulations!! I've been where you are and understand how it feels like a great weight has been lifted off your shoulders. (((HUGS)))
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Old 02-13-2015, 08:36 PM
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Congratulations yurt!!!

Start of a new life!!!
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Wow! Spread your wings and fly!!!!
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Good for you, Yurt. Congratulations. (((((((( big hugs )))))))
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I remember your early posts, Yurt, and man, you have come a looooong way. Congrats on all your progress--I know there's all kinds of exciting and energizing stuff waiting for you in the days ahead.

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Old 02-13-2015, 11:33 PM
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Congratulations on your new life Yurt,

So many exciting things ahead.

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Old 02-14-2015, 04:25 AM
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Congratulations! Happy for you that that step is behind you and you are free to move forward!
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Yurt....I, also remember your early posting days--when you were still tiptoeing on eggshells around a dictatorial type person and feeling that you were "stuck" without viable options.

What a turn around!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Yurt, I hope every remaining day of your life you surround yourself with self love. You have really worked a tough road and created a new life for yourself!

How is senior year wrapping up?
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Old 02-14-2015, 07:29 AM
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How is senior year wrapping up?
CodeJob,

My DD is so busy now, it is crazy. Plus, she still feels compelled to spend time with bother her father and I...packing a bag twice a week, lugging things from house to house. At least she sees a better side of him, now that he has to be fully responsible 3-4 days a week (still drinking to the point of blackout, though). Today she is off to an archery shoot. Next week, it will be a regional band performance. In the process of trying to wade through university financial questionnaires, arranging interviews for different universities.
Keeps us all hopping!
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WooHOO Congrats!!!!!
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Awesome!!! Congrats!
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Congrats!! Here's to a new you!!!
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Old 02-14-2015, 03:07 PM
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Thank you to everyone for the good wishes. I spent the last couple of days with a close friend (who was waiting for the divorce to be finalized before getting even closer), and today, the paperwork was in my mailbox. So, as my friend told me, it is time to put the past behind us.
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So, come down to Phoenix and we'll celebrate!!! Hopefully I'll be right behind you! Congrats to you!
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I'll be joining you all shortly as well. Feel lighter already! Unbelievable how hard it has been but I have the whole rest of my life to look forward to!

Congratulations Yurt!!! You did it!
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Sending love and good wishes to all of you who are moving on to the next wonderful phase of your lives.

You are all amazing, and I'm in awe of the strength you have each showed in letting go
and stepping out boldly into the future. . .
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