The divorce is final!
The divorce is final!
I called the courthouse, and they were finally able to give me the good news. So thankful that it has come to an end. I am still sharing parenting responsibilities wit XAH, but at least I can look forward. I might even start to feel and look like a "normie" at some point (with super sensitive antennae).
I remember your early posts, Yurt, and man, you have come a looooong way. Congrats on all your progress--I know there's all kinds of exciting and energizing stuff waiting for you in the days ahead.
((((hugs))))
((((hugs))))
Yurt....I, also remember your early posting days--when you were still tiptoeing on eggshells around a dictatorial type person and feeling that you were "stuck" without viable options.
What a turn around!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
dandylion
What a turn around!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
dandylion
CodeJob,
My DD is so busy now, it is crazy. Plus, she still feels compelled to spend time with bother her father and I...packing a bag twice a week, lugging things from house to house. At least she sees a better side of him, now that he has to be fully responsible 3-4 days a week (still drinking to the point of blackout, though). Today she is off to an archery shoot. Next week, it will be a regional band performance. In the process of trying to wade through university financial questionnaires, arranging interviews for different universities.
Keeps us all hopping!
My DD is so busy now, it is crazy. Plus, she still feels compelled to spend time with bother her father and I...packing a bag twice a week, lugging things from house to house. At least she sees a better side of him, now that he has to be fully responsible 3-4 days a week (still drinking to the point of blackout, though). Today she is off to an archery shoot. Next week, it will be a regional band performance. In the process of trying to wade through university financial questionnaires, arranging interviews for different universities.
Keeps us all hopping!
Thank you to everyone for the good wishes. I spent the last couple of days with a close friend (who was waiting for the divorce to be finalized before getting even closer), and today, the paperwork was in my mailbox. So, as my friend told me, it is time to put the past behind us.
Sending love and good wishes to all of you who are moving on to the next wonderful phase of your lives.
You are all amazing, and I'm in awe of the strength you have each showed in letting go
and stepping out boldly into the future. . .
You are all amazing, and I'm in awe of the strength you have each showed in letting go
and stepping out boldly into the future. . .
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