Relationships in early recovery
Relationships in early recovery
Are a bad idea right? I've been seeing a guy for a couple of months and I'm not sure I'm strong enough to continue. My default in the past would be to drink when stuff got tough and I can't afford for that to happen now.
Well, it's always your choice. If he's a good guy and he's understanding of your sobriety and the emotional ups and downs, why not keep seeing him? You don't have to think 30 years ahead, just today.
I understand the emotional roller coaster, I really do. Is he making comments about it that are bothering you? Or is there something else about him that is making you uncomfortable?
I understand the emotional roller coaster, I really do. Is he making comments about it that are bothering you? Or is there something else about him that is making you uncomfortable?
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What I usually suggest to people here: why not just be friends for a while if you have doubts? You don't need to put a name on it. Get to know each-other, do things together etc without anything serious, see how you feel. If he is really supportive and understanding, he may not want to rush it for you.
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I personally try to keep life simple when I'm in early recovery. Anyway, if this guy is supportive and doesn't have any problem with alcohol.. I don't see the problem.
Obviously.. if you see that the relation is making you pull towards the drinking, then you should prioritize sobriety.
Have a good day.
Obviously.. if you see that the relation is making you pull towards the drinking, then you should prioritize sobriety.
Have a good day.
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