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02-05-2015, 03:59 AM

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Kys

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End of a relationship

I don't want to talk about that at all though.

I just want to post here, and be sober.

02-05-2015, 04:03 AM

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sugarbear1

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Please do stay sober!!!!

hugs and love to you

02-05-2015, 04:05 AM

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BernieE

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Endings are hard. Thanks for reaching out. Ice cream....

02-05-2015, 04:28 AM

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headcase1

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Spring is coming,new beginings,stay stay sober,Breathe,laugh,live!

02-05-2015, 04:53 AM

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Dee74

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I'm sorry for your pain. I hope you'll think about posting here more regularly Kys.

D

02-05-2015, 05:03 AM

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Foolsgold186

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Sorry for what your going through Kys.

Sending positive thoughts your way.

02-05-2015, 05:42 AM

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Kys

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Thanks everyone.

It's a positive time where I can really take the right steps forward. Just worried I'll fall back into old ways, with this old circumstance.

02-05-2015, 05:45 AM

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Nonsensical

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Many happy stories have sad chapters.

Dee used to have a signature meme that read Everything will be OK in the end. If it's not OK, it's not the end. Always liked that one.

Be well Little Sister.

02-05-2015, 06:05 AM

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immri

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I feel ya
Hang in there

02-05-2015, 06:11 AM

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newddaytoday

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Sometimes it is just time to move on. Good luck and stay sober!

02-05-2015, 06:34 AM

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ScottFromWI

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Originally Posted by Kys

Thanks everyone.

It's a positive time where I can really take the right steps forward. Just worried I'll fall back into old ways, with this old circumstance.

So take the right steps - you control your own destiny. Write down your plan for what you think the right steps would be - stick them on your fridge - and do them! You cannot "fall back" into your old ways iether - you have to consciously choose to drink just as you can choose not to. That's just your addiction talking.

02-05-2015, 06:54 AM

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Anna

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I'm sorry, Kys, for your sadness and pain.

We're here for you.

02-05-2015, 07:03 AM

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SoberLeigh

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Originally Posted by Nonsensical

I love what Non said.

Store the good from that relationship in your heart and carry it with you into a better future.

We are here to help you stay strong. Lean on us.

02-05-2015, 07:08 AM

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1stepup

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Sorry youre going through this Kys, know only too well how hard relationship breakups can be but it is a new start and everyday sober we grow through the pain sometimes by tiny amounts but by drinking we just stunt our growth, wish you all the best.

02-05-2015, 07:16 AM

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soberclover

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Totally get it.....thinking of you.........

02-05-2015, 07:19 AM

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Soberwolf

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Here for you Kys

02-05-2015, 07:24 AM

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gypsytears

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Keep posting. Staying sober is the best relationship!

02-05-2015, 07:28 AM

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Aellyce

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Hi Kys, I also just ended one last week. And I'm just beginning to really understand why... Glad you are sober

02-05-2015, 08:38 AM

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PurpleKnight

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Hang in there Kys!!

02-14-2015, 09:00 PM

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Kys

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Thanks everyone

I've just come back from being down the coast for a while, was great to get away and does a lot for perspective.

Back to work and reality somewhat tomorrow but all good.

It's times like these especially I'm reminded how clearer and simpler life is without the booze.