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Old 02-04-2015, 11:07 AM
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idk how all this works?

I have terrible anxiety with going to meetings or seeing a counselor so i figured this might be a good first step. I have been just battling all of this myself and it really gets to be overwhelming.
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Old 02-04-2015, 11:12 AM
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Welcome to the forum.

The people here are wonderfully supportive and full of great advice.

I've been here since late Sunday night and have gone from being angry and scared to feeling empowered
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Welcome, fallingwater, to SR.

Have a look around the site; there is a wealth of information here about addiction and the various methods and techniques to achieve and maintain sobriety.

The threads are a great way to get know members, share experiences and offer and receive support.

Glad you found SR.
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Welcome to the Forum fallingwater!!
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Old 02-04-2015, 11:17 AM
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Thank you it seems very supportive. I hope it will help.
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Old 02-04-2015, 11:17 AM
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How this works here is look at postings, ask questions and enjoy being among others who feel EXACTLY as you do!
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Old 02-04-2015, 11:21 AM
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Welcome fallingwater try this for anxiety 3 Anxiety Breathing Techniques You Can Practice Anywhere - Self help for anxiety - @AnxietySlayer

A breathing exercise that calms panic attacks.

its nice to meet you
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Old 02-04-2015, 11:21 AM
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Hi. I suffer from anxiety, which drove me to drink, which then fueled my anxiety and so on and so on......
I too feel greatly intimidated by groups of people and the idea of sitting with a counselor made me break out in a sweat. Each person is very different of course, but I'll tell you the three things that FINALLY helped me make that call to see a counselor.
1. I read some self help. I didn't love every book, but it helped me begin to understand anxiety.
2. I stayed busy and made to do lists, which I then checked off as I completed. And simple stuff too, like vacuumed, dishes, bills, walks. Nothing shuts my anxious voice up like telling it all the things I accomplished.
3. I decided to accept things as they are. It's work, to accept how I am or what I did. But when I get super anxious about a thing, I just say ok, this is how it is right now. I can put it on my list to work on, I can be better in the future, but I won't ruin my present time with it.
It's a process, some days these things work better than others. But the most important thing is to be trying. Stay strong. I know you can do it.
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Old 02-04-2015, 11:27 AM
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welcome fallingwater,

maybe you and Esspee can team up and conquer this together.
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You're not alone any more, fallingwater. Welcome to an encouraging and friendly place for recovery.
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Welcome,

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