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Old 02-04-2015, 10:58 AM
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would like to know the lifespan of a 52 yr old alcohol/addict/smoker

im so afraid my husband will die he has been smoking over pack a day since about 13 yrs old drinks liquer everyday about 3-6 drinks for past 25 years takes oxycodone everyday for over 8 years, and takes xanex don't know how often but for over 4 years now we tried rahab worked for the time he was there plus 3 days cant afford it again. plus this man works about 35 weeks per year any input ? hes not abusive just sick.
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Old 02-04-2015, 11:13 AM
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Welcome to the Forum!!

I am very sorry for what brings you here, the reality is if he doesn't want to change his ways, and it sounds like he doesn't, if 3 days after rehab he want back to the same habits, that really is the most important thing.

It's also important though for you to get support through all of this, here on SR you'll find loads, we also have a friends/family section which is worth a read:

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Great to have you here!!
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Old 02-04-2015, 11:15 AM
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Welcome to the forum.

I don't think anybody can answer that but he is definitely at risk of a decreased lifespan.

Has he expressed a desire to conquer his addictions?
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Old 02-04-2015, 11:18 AM
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Welcome nice to meet you Sickofit youl find so much support here

Hopefully he will enter recovery ((()))
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Old 02-04-2015, 11:21 AM
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Welcome, sickofit, to SR. I am glad you found us but am very sorry for what brings you here.

An addict has to want sobriety and be firmly committed to recovery efforts.

Have you considered Alanon for yourself?
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Old 02-04-2015, 11:23 AM
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I had a brother in law that smoked & drank heavy.He didn't make it to 60.His body just gave out sitting in a chair with a cigarette.Thankfully there was no fire.Sadly, nobody was surprised to hear of his death.
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Old 02-04-2015, 11:24 AM
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I predict he won't make it past June 18. 2073.

Welcome to the forum. Support him as best you can. It is amazing what the human body can do if it is treated well. Even after years of abuse. We are resilient creatures.
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Old 02-04-2015, 11:25 AM
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Hi Sickofit,

I think this is one of those questions that none of us can adequately answer.

Purpleknight is right. You must take care of you.

The anxiety and stress of loving someone who is sick must be overwhelming. Know that another's addiction path is not in your hands. Not in your control. Not your responsibility. How you respond to your husband's choices is up to you though. Please take care of your heart and mind in the best way possible.

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